steelgator Posted March 27, 2013 Posted March 27, 2013 So I used to sit next to this girl in class a couple years ago...she had a boyfriend at the time but eventually broke up and we went out on a couple unofficial dates...nothing came of it. That was over a year ago Fast forward to the other night when I was in St. Augustine for my sister's bday, she just texted me "hey" at midnight...so i text "hey" right back. she waits an hour to ask what im doing but im asleep by then. When I'm back in town the next day, i text her at midnight and she said she's out at a bar. I tell her I'll take her home if she needs a right and she tells me to come now. I pick her up and were just catching up on the ride home and she's laughing pointing out my minor physical flaws so I know she's flirting. We go inside her place and her roommates are asleep but she wants to lay down on the couch and she said no one is allowed in her room, she sits on my lap facing me and we make out for a bit but thats it, she didn't want to have sex and just wants me to hold her, it was kinda weird. She then tells me to go home and text her tomorrow. So I text her the next day and i ask if she wants to hang while i have time and shes at the dentist. Then the next day I ask her to dinner and she says she made plans with her roommate. I want to hang with this girl but so far I don't know what she wants...I haven't tried texting alot because I like to talk in person.
Treasa Posted March 27, 2013 Posted March 27, 2013 Well, I definitely commend you for wanting to talk rather than text. A morbid curiosity has me wanting you to tell her, "Look, I'd like to take you out on a date. What do you say? Don't blow smoke up my ass, because I'm not going to sit around and wait." However, you should probably stick to, "Want to go out on a date with me on Friday or Saturday?" 1
theloyalone1 Posted March 28, 2013 Posted March 28, 2013 I'm glad your not one of those "text" relationship type of guy and actually want to have a conversation so I applaud you for that. *hand claps* It looks to me that she is "busy" and if i was you, I would fall back alittle and see if she hits you up. If anything, i would text, hey just thinking about you, let me know when your next free day so we can hang out. Simple and to the point.
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