dkk1234 Posted March 27, 2013 Posted March 27, 2013 Girlfriend of two years broke up with me recently because every time when we would get into an argument I would threaten her about breaking up. She had enough of it, and I finally learned my lesson about saying things only when I mean it. We have not talked on the phone for almost three weeks. I texted her today asking her whether or not she wants to work things out. I told her that I am willing to wait if she still needs time to think. I also told her that if she does not want this relationship anymore, then I won't pressure her anymore and move on. She texted me back saying "I don't know......I'll think about it and let you know." Does her message mean that there is a possibility of us getting back together? Should I just be good and wait it out for another week?
imconfused13 Posted March 27, 2013 Posted March 27, 2013 (edited) Your situation sucks. All you can do is wait for her to want to try again. If you keep after her about it you will only make sure she will never want to come back. You told her you were willing to wait, so now you have to back those words up and wait for her. You also told her you learned from your mistakes and only say what you mean. You have to prove that to her by waiting and giving her the time to think. Give her a few weeks to cool off and calm down, then maybe send her a text that says hi. Be casual and light. Don't force the issue. See if she is willing to open communications back up and let her bring up how she is feeling when she is ready. Remember you are the one who has everything to prove and everything to lose. Patience is hard. Edited March 28, 2013 by imconfused13 1
Asda Posted March 30, 2013 Posted March 30, 2013 Give her some space for few weeks, then invite her out to a restaurant. If you ever will get back, ignore many things the way women is, just do not pay attention to it, be happy about the fact that you are together. Still, anyway turbulence is something that every relationship is going through at the beginning, important not to fall apart during this time, later on everything will settle down. Work on yourself, if you have temper try somehow to control it. Keep distance in relationships a bit, private space is vital.
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