blueyeguy10 Posted March 27, 2013 Share Posted March 27, 2013 I met this beautiful woman online and we have been dating for a few months. She lives in Canada and I live just a 2 hour drive away. We discussed her relocating down to live with me which i'm very much excited about in 3-4 months. We see each other every 3 weeks or so but i'm having a hard time going out and interacting with other woman... Woman are drawn to me and it's hard because my libido at 32 years is crazy. I really do care about my lady but it's so hard... How does anyone do this? Link to post Share on other sites
Feelin Frisky Posted March 27, 2013 Share Posted March 27, 2013 Aw, you poor dear. Women just can't help themselves around you. Try not to "suffer" to much. There's an old adage that goes something like "a hundred bushes in hand are worth more than one bush in the bush" . Or something like that. Welcome to Love Shack BTW. I wish I had your "problem". Link to post Share on other sites
ses Posted March 28, 2013 Share Posted March 28, 2013 I would talk with her about the boundaries within your relationship. Would she feel comfortable letting you watch porn to pass the time? Have you two met in person? It's a risk but is sexy time by Skype or webcam an available option? Everyone has sexual urges. It's normal, especially in a LDR. Just remember that your partner is experiencing the same urges as well. You're not a slave to your libido. Find other activities to distract yourself until you can enjoy your partner in person. Good luck! Link to post Share on other sites
cerridwen Posted March 28, 2013 Share Posted March 28, 2013 I met this beautiful woman online and we have been dating for a few months. She lives in Canada and I live just a 2 hour drive away. We discussed her relocating down to live with me which i'm very much excited about in 3-4 months. We see each other every 3 weeks or so but i'm having a hard time going out and interacting with other woman... Woman are drawn to me and it's hard because my libido at 32 years is crazy. I really do care about my lady but it's so hard... How does anyone do this? This is when one's character is revealed, don't you think? 4 Link to post Share on other sites
iKING Posted March 28, 2013 Share Posted March 28, 2013 By learning self-control, or jerking off. Sex isn't everything, you know? 6 Link to post Share on other sites
LittleTiger Posted March 28, 2013 Share Posted March 28, 2013 If you can't manage to go without sex for a few weeks, I would suggest that perhaps a LDR isn't for you! 3 Link to post Share on other sites
ForeverHopeful1 Posted March 29, 2013 Share Posted March 29, 2013 I met this beautiful woman online and we have been dating for a few months. She lives in Canada and I live just a 2 hour drive away. We discussed her relocating down to live with me which i'm very much excited about in 3-4 months. We see each other every 3 weeks or so but i'm having a hard time going out and interacting with other woman... Woman are drawn to me and it's hard because my libido at 32 years is crazy. I really do care about my lady but it's so hard... How does anyone do this?[/quote Wow. Why are you having this POOR woman relocate to be closer to you after only months of dating when you don't know how to control yourself. By 32, you shouldn't be asking questions like this and should have some self control. You're a dick. How about control your horny self. You are 32, not 15. AND GET OVER YOURSELF. What the **** would you have this poor girl relocate from HOME for knowing you feel this way? Just go bang all the chicks who are clearly throwing themselves at you and LEAVE THIS POOR LADY ALONE!!!!! UGH! JESUS. Act like the 32 year old you are! That'd be how you would do things. You sound like the kind of person who will sleep around after getting her to move down there with you and what a selfish move that would be. If you care about her at all, then you should tell her to be with a real man. Do her a favour and don't let her move down there until you know how to control yourself or until you know she is special. After a few months? You have seen her maybe 4 times ever and you want her to move there? Am I seeing this right? Or am I just living in the god damn twilight zone? This makes me horribly angry that youre going to have her move down there without knowing what a scum bag you are. PATHETIC. My answer is START ACTING YOUR AGE AND STOP ACTING LIKE A TEENAGER. Link to post Share on other sites
cactusrodhes Posted April 2, 2013 Share Posted April 2, 2013 You have to control yourself until your women come to you or else there is another option which satisfies your desires.hire a Southall Escort these girls are available for outcalls so you can spend your free time with. Link to post Share on other sites
justwhoiam Posted April 2, 2013 Share Posted April 2, 2013 I met this beautiful woman online and we have been dating for a few months. She lives in Canada and I live just a 2 hour drive away. A two-hour drive? That's not LONG distance. Trust me on that. We see each other every 3 weeks or so Oh. Why? I hope you have a nice excuse for that. my libido at 32 years is crazy. I really do care about my lady but it's so hard... How does anyone do this? I see your hormones are eating up your brain cells... The most viable solution? Every time you feel horny, you drive your car and go visit her. That's what I'd like best from my man. It's possible that you'll feel a bit less horny in a while, and a bit more lazy. Anyway, with just 2 hours away from each other, you should spend most weekends together. For the rest of the week, satisfy your mutual needs through phone and cam. You can do that for 4 months. No big deal. Link to post Share on other sites
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