SadAndLonely Posted September 12, 2004 Posted September 12, 2004 My boyfriend broke up with me on Monday. He asked me not to contact him for a week, and except for one moment where I left him a voice mail asking if he even wanted to be friends, I haven't called him. Our mutual friends think he'll probably want to still be friends with me, but this is SO DAMN HARD. I still miss him so much and am in so much pain. In the days before he broke up with me we were kissing, holding hands, making out, etc. He has some issues, and I have some issues, but he dumped me rather than talk about them. I can't believe he's over me already, but if he hasn't called me yet he must be, right? He tends to stick to his word, though, and said he didn't want contact with me for a week. Is there any chance he'll miss me? We were very compatible and were usually happy together, although he isn't happy with his own life right now. God, I miss being in his arms so bad. I'm so miserable, and even after six days I'm not doing any better. PLEASE help me...
prevch Posted September 12, 2004 Posted September 12, 2004 First off don't use the Lord's name in vain. every time you do it makes him feel the way you are feeling right now. Now that that is out of the way let me start off by saying if you guys did really care about each other he is not over you. He is just going through some stuff right now. Respect his wishes, let him go, and if he really love syou he will come back. If you guys don't talk for like a month or something give him a ring and se what he is up to very friendly like. My girlfriend of 3.5 years dumped me and it took me 2 months and 16 days to get over it. I am not 100% happy or anything but hey I am a lot better than I was. Most of the time people break up with people for the wrong reasons. Your ex will prolly go date and see what else is out there for him but he will find it is really difficult to find a good relationship. Everything will work out I promise!!!! Let him go don't contact him let him contact you! If it is meant to be it will be. and for now go out, have fun, date etc!!! I wish u Heaven
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