trainrek07 Posted March 27, 2013 Posted March 27, 2013 I need some help understanding my ex gf. Sorry if it's long, I tried to make it as short as possible and easier to read. • She broke up with me a year ago. There was a lot of anger and hurt on both sides so instead of resolving things, we decided to never speak to each other or anyone the other cares about. • I haven’t seen her around or spoken to her until recently. • She started showing up at all my favorite bars frequently, but I just ignored her presence. • She would act like she was having the time of her life and would make out with random guys in my proximity. • She told a mutual female friend not to talk to me anymore. • She tried to get back on good terms with my female friends and she tried to “talk” to one of my male friends. She stopped trying to talk to him after she yelled at me (later event). • I asked one of my friends if she was talking about me and it got back to her. • She confronted me about talking to my friend about her and yelled at me saying to never talk about her to anyone and to not send my friends to talk crap to her. The thing is I never talk bad about her and would never dream of sending friends to talk crap to her. They just try to ignore her. • Later that night she apologized for yelling at me, but told me “it’s done, it was stupid”. That comment was in context to the things that happened between us that made us not speak to each other. We ignored each other the rest of the night. • The next day she put some lyrics to Clarity by Zedd on her facebook. • A few days later I met a friend of hers and when I introduced myself she said that she already knew who I was and has heard all about me. I left it and her alone. • We are in our mid-twenties. She is bipolar. She is my first and only love. I still haven't initiated any sort of contact since the break up. I’m trying to understand this objectively, but it’s hard. I really need input on what it seems like she wants or is thinking. Thanks for any input.
WhatYouWantToHear Posted March 27, 2013 Posted March 27, 2013 You can't logically analyze something that doesn't behave logically. No contact.
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