deeelight Posted September 12, 2004 Posted September 12, 2004 What does it mean when my ex-boyfriend (ex-fiance) breaks up with me, then, after 3 months, starts spraying my perfume on his bed? Seriously, he's doing this but won't say that he wants me back. Someone else told me about this.
Touch_of_Naughtiness Posted September 12, 2004 Posted September 12, 2004 How does that person know your bf is doing that? I would be a bit scared to tell you the truth.
Merin Posted September 12, 2004 Posted September 12, 2004 Well could be he misses you and your scent........ OR It could be he just really liked the fragrance? LOL omg I have no idea!
Max Zoom Posted September 12, 2004 Posted September 12, 2004 Max thinks its because he is too lazy to wash his sheets regularly and can no longer stand the smell.
Author deeelight Posted September 12, 2004 Author Posted September 12, 2004 I guess I am a bit weirded out by it. I put myself in that position and I would only do that if I missed the person. He (my ex) confirmed my tpe of perfume a little while ago, in a round about way (concealing the true purpose of the question) and I later found out that he bought it and sprayed it on my old pillow. His friend told me but i am not supposed to know. He didn't know what it meant either. the ex is still 'really confused' according to his friend, but my ex won't say anything about feelingsd to me.
prevch Posted September 12, 2004 Posted September 12, 2004 He may be confused but one thing is for certain he loves you. Give him a call say hello ask how things are but act like getting back together is the last thing on your mind. He is totally into you. Hope everything works out the way you want it to
lydiamarie Posted September 12, 2004 Posted September 12, 2004 yeah, if you want him back, then it would be worth a call. what's he going to do? dump you again??
backspn Posted September 12, 2004 Posted September 12, 2004 I agree. Now is the time to get him back. Sounds like its the right time to make your move. I wish I had easy signals like this in my case. Things are looking up for you.....from a guys perspective.
tiki Posted September 13, 2004 Posted September 13, 2004 Mail him a new bottle. Tell him that you heard he was getting low and needed more.
HokeyReligions Posted September 13, 2004 Posted September 13, 2004 Originally posted by Max Zoom Max thinks its because he is too lazy to wash his sheets regularly and can no longer stand the smell. Dang! You beat me to it! That's what I was going to say!
Touch_of_Naughtiness Posted September 13, 2004 Posted September 13, 2004 Originally posted by tikibrandy Mail him a new bottle. Tell him that you heard he was getting low and needed more. Too funny!
Author deeelight Posted September 15, 2004 Author Posted September 15, 2004 Well, I called him yesterday, and took an intertesting approach. The last few times I talked to him he made little flirty notions regarding his still 'fantasizing' about me (sexually). Prior to this time, I ignored it as though he hadn't said anything (I didn't want to take it too seriously) I flirted back for the first time, told him I was naked (messing with him), the response was positive, he said that wasn't fair, it's been a while. Later, talking to him a second time, he told me he had just been thinking about me. He seems different, like he wants to hold on to communication with me this time. I know that this will take time, but i am starting to think that with the right approach, I may have him back within a couple of months. I already know he loves me, I just think it might have taken him a while to realize how much. Now he needs to figure out what he's willing to do about it. Scales tilt my way, so it seems. I will keep you posted, hopefully this will add to the short list of success stories here. I never issues the n/c rule. I stayed moderately open, which, I think helped. Love to all.
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