quite.foolish Posted March 27, 2013 Posted March 27, 2013 I'm quite sure she wouldn't reply.. She blocked me on facebook, things were left on a horrible note, with horrible words spoken by me. It's probably a waste of time, I just can't get her out of my head. I don't want her to remember me the way she will now, I want to fix the memories that I broke. I don't know what to do, email her? Send flowers to her door? knock her door with flowers? I just feel like we should still be friends, I miss her so much. I made stupid choices and regret a lot of what I did after we fell out. I just want to make things right with her. What the hell can I do?
geegirl Posted March 27, 2013 Posted March 27, 2013 Time to go back and read that thread of when you made contact and you were petrified of the police showing up. What's done is done. She has probably put it all behind her and is moving on with her life. Let her go. Let her live it. Honestly QF, when someone wrongs you that way, there is very little chance of undoing it.
Renard99 Posted March 27, 2013 Posted March 27, 2013 as Fooloftheyear says... let it go The longer you try and contact her the worse you'll look in her eyes. You'll constantly remind her of what went on and what you said. Leave her to forget the whole thing as time progresses. She'll remember the good times at some point, in the same way we all remember only the best things about our ex even though they broke our hearts. I know you want to right the wrongs but you're not going to be able to. If it makes you feel better write the letter but DON'T send it! Write it and then destroy it immediately. You need to accept that the relationship is over and it ended the way it ended. Sure, it wasn't nice, but you can't change history, you can only learn from it.
iKING Posted March 27, 2013 Posted March 27, 2013 Nothing... It's time to move on. The sooner you move on, the sooner you will heal.
NewPerspective93 Posted March 28, 2013 Posted March 28, 2013 Nothing. There is nothing you can do. Contacting her IS a waste of time. Thinking about how she thinks of you will not help you in any manner. If you indeed act upon your current desires in regards to contacting her, she might see you in a more negative light, since she did block you on FB. Why would you contact her when she BLOCKED you on FB? Doesn't that tell you something? Sending her flowers? Why would you do that? That would seem like a desperate move, so why do it. I don't mean to sound negative, but why would you do that? That wouldn't do anything. Being friends at this stage will only be detrimental to your well-being. Trust me on that one. Basically, live your life and let her live hers. I know this is a hard pill to swallow but you'll be better off anyway. 1
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