missmazzy Posted March 26, 2013 Posted March 26, 2013 I have known this guy for 10 years and during those 10 years (on and off), we have had a secret relationship where we would IM and email each other, and very rarely see each other in person. Usually our talks are sexually-oriented, and we were physical a few times many years ago (a mistake, I know). But we have not been physical in many years and he knows I would not do that now because he is married. He has told me things like he thinks I am a great person and if things were different in his life maybe we would have been together. I can understand that some men cheat but why do you think he would carry on like this for so many years without getting any from me? Just for fun?
Author missmazzy Posted March 27, 2013 Author Posted March 27, 2013 Using some potential relationship with you as an escapist reality to ease current real life stresses. Interesting... so the "relationship" with me is a good way for him to take some time out from reality to do something that makes him feel good?
applej4 Posted March 29, 2013 Posted March 29, 2013 WTF?? What difference does it make "why" or how he is getting his jollies? YOU are the one who needs to look into why YOU are doing what you are doing. You're being used and the "relationship" is quite pathetic. Get yourself a real bf and stop diddling around with him. You are nothing special to him - you can be sure he is doing this bs with others so don't kid yourself. Therapy might help.
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