pra09chm Posted March 26, 2013 Posted March 26, 2013 Went to a friend's birthday party and a guy was there. I wasn't really interested at first, but he was around me all night and he's good looking and a nice guy. So anyway we ended up sleeping together (totally out of character for me as well!) being pretty drunk, we weren't at it for very long and spent a lot of time chatting. I was actually staying in his city for a month as part of my job. I mentioned this too him and (while we were in bed) started asking me if I was considering getting a permanent transfer, offered to drive me there the next day etc. and raised the issue of us meeting up. He was staying at our mutual friends house and I left to meet up with another friend. He got my number and text me offering me a lift (I declined). Since then he text *every* day. We went on a date and he came back and stayed at mine. Neither of us want a relationship and tbh, I just wanted a bit of no strings sex. We both came out of relationships a year ago and I'm enjoying being single. I'd usually invite him round, he'd ask if I wanted to meet for drinks first, but most of the time I was just too tired and just wanted him to come straight over and er, get down to the business basically. So we did this for a month, we'd usually chat a lot afterwards and I am fond of him and said I'd like to be friends. If I lived in he same city and if I thought he was emotionally available, I'd probably be less cold towards him. When I went home, he went to a party and got a bit drunk. He text me at about 1am asking if I was awake - I joked the next day that I was the wrong person to text for a booty call, as I'd gone home. He said he just fancied a friendly chat. After that he was a bit more distant - he'd said he wasn't going to text as often (I'd mentioned to him that he was very keen...) Now, he has always initiated the texts and usually i've been pretty quick to respond, but I've NEVER text him first. I have mixed feelings towards him because on one hand, I do like him as a person and I'm attracted to him, but I'm also on my guard because he has a track record with girls and because i'm not very experienced in dating. I'm stopping in the city again for a night and we'd said we'd meet up then, that will be in about two weeks. Should I just text him first or accept he's lost interest now I've moved home?
sillyanswer Posted March 26, 2013 Posted March 26, 2013 Should I just text him first or accept he's lost interest now I've moved home? Was the sex good? Do you want more? If yes, text him.
Author pra09chm Posted March 28, 2013 Author Posted March 28, 2013 followed your advice and text him got a response straight away so I'm thinking I was maybe a bit too standoffish with him!
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