Tk123 Posted March 26, 2013 Posted March 26, 2013 Hey there! I've been in this LDR for 5 months now. We met over Facebook and it has been absolutely magical spending hours talking with each other over the phone, Skype, etc. every day. I love her to death however we have been having trouble picking a date to meet up. I was on spring break last week and that would've been the perfect time to meet but she was busy working all week and had a family crisis to take care of as well. We did agree on meeting during summer but I feel like I need to see her sooner. She's got off for Easter coming up from tomorrow-Tuesday and I was figuring this would be another good time to meet. However, I'm scared to ask her again because I do not want to look like I'm clingy to her. It was only a week ago where she said meeting up wasnt going to work but I'm really pushing to meet her. My question to you all is: would it be a bad idea to see if she is willing to meet during Easter? Should I just wait to summer which we agreed on? All your help would be greatly appreciated!
january2011 Posted March 26, 2013 Posted March 26, 2013 I don't see anything wrong with saying that you'd like to talk about meeting earlier than the summer because you'd really like to see her. There's nothing clingy about that. You're just rescheduling. Ask her for some dates before summer and see what she says. If she's reluctant then I'd be thinking two things: she doesn't want to meet or her circumstances don't allow her to give you what you need in this relationship, i.e., family and work take up too much of her time and she's not really available for a serious relationship. 3
justwhoiam Posted April 2, 2013 Posted April 2, 2013 Have you ever thought she might feel she's not ready to meet you? I'm not sure how common that is, but I know it can apply to some people, especially girls. Maybe she wants you to meet her when she looks her best. I don't know. It's just an option worth considering. So don't push it for this first time meeting. 1
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