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complete NC impossible due to shared interests - how to deal?


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have also posted this in breaking up - not sure where it should be just yet

 

 

 

Hi - I'm not going to go into the detail of our break up - that is captured in other threads.

 

But here is the problem I face. I have gone NC, no emails, BB, phonecalls etc, but we are both on a committee that meets once every couple of weeks, so I am going to have to face him on a regular basis. We also share a pastime that will mean I will see him probably weekly. I am not dropping any of my hobbies, just because I will see him.

 

Advice on how to deal with those situations gratefully received.

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Focus on your interest and not him. Make yourself hyperfocus if you have to.

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