msalek89 Posted March 26, 2013 Posted March 26, 2013 Hey everyone. Well I am a bit confused about this situation. For more that I kick me ex out of my life he still manages to keep in touch and it just bothers me. We broke up about 3 months ago. I tried to see if we could give it one more chance but I convinced myself that it was not happenings. I never got in touch with him it’s always him to initiate contact. So about a month ago I blocked everything that has to do with him. However, he always texts me from random free number which I constantly block. About two weeks ago he was asking me to go to his house to talk and watch a movie. I said “look please do me a favor and stop contacting me. I have nothing to talk to you about; we both moved on so respect my decision.” He didn’t reply. So two weeks passed and nothing from him until Saturday night. He text me around 12:30am saying “Melissa” then at 2:30am “Are you okay?”. I saw the messages Sunday morning but before I saw the messages I found out that my aunt had passed away. I text him back saying “no my aunt passed away and my grandmother is not well, I am leaving to PA tonight.” Then I kind of regret texting him because I was waiting for a response which until today Tuesday I have not got. I really don’t understand what’s the matter with him is. He knows that I don’t want to talk to him; he knows that I won’t see him again and he knows that I am with someone else, so where is he trying to get? Why does he keep wasting his time texting me, maybe to just bother me? What would you guys make out of this?
TaraMaiden Posted March 26, 2013 Posted March 26, 2013 I never answer questions about the other person's thought processes and actions. Why? Because there are NO answers. The only question anyone should be asking in relation to ex-behaviour, is NOT "Why are they doing....?" but - "What do I do in response?" And the correct response is - Ignore. Maintain NC. Carry on. 1
Author msalek89 Posted March 26, 2013 Author Posted March 26, 2013 Yea you are right. I feel like he is going to keep bothering since he as nothing better to do. I did wrong in replying to his message because everytime I do I end up feeling atupid about it. Next time he gets in touch I will just delete his message and carry on. Thanks
polyglot Posted March 26, 2013 Posted March 26, 2013 Hey everyone. Well I am a bit confused about this situation. For more that I kick me ex out of my life he still manages to keep in touch and it just bothers me. We broke up about 3 months ago. I tried to see if we could give it one more chance but I convinced myself that it was not happenings. I never got in touch with him it’s always him to initiate contact. So about a month ago I blocked everything that has to do with him. However, he always texts me from random free number which I constantly block. About two weeks ago he was asking me to go to his house to talk and watch a movie. I said “look please do me a favor and stop contacting me. I have nothing to talk to you about; we both moved on so respect my decision.” He didn’t reply. So two weeks passed and nothing from him until Saturday night. He text me around 12:30am saying “Melissa” then at 2:30am “Are you okay?”. I saw the messages Sunday morning but before I saw the messages I found out that my aunt had passed away. I text him back saying “no my aunt passed away and my grandmother is not well, I am leaving to PA tonight.” Then I kind of regret texting him because I was waiting for a response which until today Tuesday I have not got. I really don’t understand what’s the matter with him is. He knows that I don’t want to talk to him; he knows that I won’t see him again and he knows that I am with someone else, so where is he trying to get? Why does he keep wasting his time texting me, maybe to just bother me? What would you guys make out of this? Outright NC - nothing else. Don't care read the message...delete delete delete
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