Emotional overwhelming?

[AverageCat]

Does such thing exist?

 

This is my first serious relationship and it's kind of too much sometime....

We text/call each other every day.

We meet up at least 3x/week. (she usually invites me out another few times which I decline).

The emotional stuff is ridculous. Words like "baby" "honey" have almost lost their meaning cuz of too much usage.

Last time we met up we had sex 5 times in a row for a total of 6 hours. I don't even know how my dick was still up the 5th time....

 

Too much? After all this high Im wondering when this "honeymoon" phase is gonna wear off... I.e. Is everything will become mundane soon?

 

I almost feel like when we had less contact, I was anticiapting more to see her and had especially more fun doing something "small crazy". I feel like we're using up all our bullets very fast and soon there'll be no more fire... I mean this is all crazy good for now... But I feel like when at your highest you can only go down.

[Emilia]

It is completely normal how you are feeling and will probably look back on with fondness, especially the 5 x sex part

 

How are you two getting on when you are together? Do you argue/bicker, do you feel you have to hold back or do you get on really well?

[ja123]

I'm hearing that you want to slow things down, but why is the question.

 

Do you feel afraid that you'll feel a sense of let down when the inevitable passion/infatuation wears off?

 

Or, is the constant attention and contact keeping you from doing other things in your life which you also find fulfilling, i.e. you need your own time to do your own thing?

 

Or, are you wondering if you're really into this girl enough to go long-term, as you don't know her that well, and the cards don't seem to be in your hands as you are caught up in the intensity of the situation?

[iKING]

No, Power Overwhelming.

 

It'll wear off eventually more then likely, that's why they say distance makes the heart grow fonder. Personally I try to stretch out the craziness and make it last. Always leave things to be done. It is possible to have too much of something good.

 

You could end up burnt out.

 

Once in awhile a 6 hour bang session is fun, but all the time? That would just kill the special.

 

What goes up, must come down.

 

If you can work through it, and maybe try to slow down a bit, but still have days of just pure craziness/affection, it might work. Otherwise it'll be another 2 month honeymoon relationship, as soon as things slow down you guys break up type thing.

[AverageCat]

@Emilia: We get along extremely well. I pride myself to be a very easy going understandable person. We almost never hold back. I think a relationship is based on communication and honesty, so we tell each other pretty much everything and if there is something that bothers us, we communicate it in a very calm manner.

 

@ja123: Of the 3, I just feel afraid that I'll feel a sense of let down when the inevitable passion/infatuation wears off.

 

@iKING: I believe in the same theory. hence we were casually seeing each other once a week for 6-7 months prior. However it seemed like she needed this constant contact and affection and attention to feel the emotional rush and rollercoaster.

 

Finally, I feel like if we have an "amazing time" each night, then suddenly just hanging out and watching a movie, will feel "bad". That's how things work in my mind. You do something often and all of a sudden the high becomes normal and the normal becomes bad. You need to keep things spaced apart so that you actually realize they are "special".