Gingerxr2 Posted March 26, 2013 Share Posted March 26, 2013 Well it's been six months on Saturday since b/u and still not a peep , I know I feel better day by day but in the back of my mind I still think about her and why she's so quite ? , believe me I know this is best for me as bread crumbs would screw me up , but it would be nice to know that she thinks about me now and again , for all I know she could be out humping knight in but in my head I don't care , I have to fight with myself every day not to email her as I know she won't respond , but this is the daily task I can't seem to remove , I think it's worse as it seems to be these little things that hold me be back other women ? Is this normal ? Had anyone had this problem ?? Link to post Share on other sites
lovelyde Posted March 26, 2013 Share Posted March 26, 2013 Forget about the ex. She's not worth your hard earned time. Some other girl loves you. It's your true soulmate trying to get your attention. Who is the girl who inspires you? Who is the girl you secretly admire? Who is the girl who makes you feel absolute goosebumps at the thought of approaching her? She secretly wants you. But she's too shy to approach & admit her feelings for you. And you secretly want her. But you think perhaps she's too good for you, out of your league. Basically you both secretly want each other. Find her, if she's on Twitter or Facebook, message her as you also enjoy being in her company. She sure enjoys your company. Make little jokes. Poke little fun at her, see if she loves it. And oh boy, will she love it. She can't wait to "dance" with you. - Link to post Share on other sites
Renard99 Posted March 26, 2013 Share Posted March 26, 2013 (edited) You never know, she may think about you. Just because she hasn't messaged you doesn't mean she doesn't think of you. Like I've said in another thread today, I miss my old car but I don't contact the new owner to let him know. However.....two things. First, even if she does miss you it doesn't mean she wants you back, and second, you shouldn't care whether she thinks about you or not. What does it matter if she thinks about you, it won't change the fact that you're no longer together. My ex mailed me at one point to say she thought of me. She still didn't come back so it made no difference whatsoever. I'd have been better off not knowing. None of us will ever forget someone that touched our hearts and played a big part in our lives and I'm sure your ex is no exception... however, you need to be content with just that idea and move on. You may remember a really nice teacher from school, however, you don't need them to let you know they're thinking of you. Once again, your ex is no exception to that rule. Edited March 26, 2013 by Renard99 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Gingerxr2 Posted March 26, 2013 Author Share Posted March 26, 2013 I guess my problem is I still love her , it's ok to sit and pretend your ok but swap down you still need to know that the other part of you loved you as emotionally and unconditionally as you , it's worse when they ignore every outcry possible and leave you feeling rejection all over again , It's completely stupid I know to crave something that is completely horrid but there was time I was hopelessly in love with her even though she was an arse but I guess I had my part to play in that , Just miss her Link to post Share on other sites
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