harvej Posted March 26, 2013 Posted March 26, 2013 Ever have somebody act like they are entitled and your fate regarding their respect and friendship is and honor? So here is my issue. My ex girlfriend broke up with me because she hacked my facebook account and saw that i checked the page of a certain women on several occasions. I was friends before my now ex girlfriend and I met and I was always blamed for liking her more. I have never even had a romantic discussion with her let along, slept with her. But my now ex is certain i did. She said i was creepy for stalking her when she herself own spy software to run all her friend thru. So she said she never wanted to hear from me. Gave her a week and she now she is back. She is an ex-stream narcissist and histrionic in nature. Here is the rub. She acted like I got caught in bed with this woman. She said when she saw that I had searched her name, i was a stalker. What i do when i chat, is lookup by name, face pops up, i open their page and send a message. She accused me of being sick and snooping when she has run background checks on everybody she knows out of sport. She hacked my Fb page etc.. Here is my problem. I went NC, and she called. She said that she needs time to heal from what i did,and I am a liar and creepy for what i did and will be a long time before I can even be her friend. All i want to do is tell her to FO!, but I am being nice. I endure calls where she acts like i must jump thru hoops and provide backup date in the Phoenix of text records and emails to Earn some trust back, but I have a long road, and there is no way we can discuss ever getting back together. Personally she is the most obnoxious and self centered human i know and want away from her, but she keeps acting disingenuous and ugly as if I am begging her to take me back, when i am trying to get out. So she breaks non contact rule and doesn't even know that is what i am trying to do. Is she calling me back to make it easier to walk away from the pain? I appears that she is only interested it bullying me to produce proof of my feelings over time etc,, Seems she now thinks I am enslaved and will do anything to take her back.Its almost comical how arrogant she is acting and how she tells me that I will do this or that,and she might start dating and banging other men, but that is her business until I can regain her trust to even consider being a friend..She was divorced by her husband for being too intense, and her friends are all her subjects and dont make a move without her direction. She really is acting like she is doing me a favor by allowing me to prove that I am worthy. I cant tell you how many times she lied to me, but I guess she above suspicion about this. So when she calls? Remember, i cannot contact her or call her, but she can call on her terms.
lovelyde Posted March 26, 2013 Posted March 26, 2013 You don't really love her, you just want to use her for sex. It's your fault some other dude's gonna make passionate love to her. However I will help you out. Is there a girl you secretly admire? Go for her instead. Most likely she's the person who's making you horny in reality. -
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