camillalev Posted March 27, 2013 Posted March 27, 2013 Honestly the only times I've met guys who I would consider a relationship with, I met while I wasn't looking. I disagree that most men in big cities don't want relationships, even the desired ones. I know many men who would hop into a relationship if they found the 'right' girl. In my dating experience it's usually guys who bring up the exclusivity talk. But I'm picky as well, you just become more familiar with what you want as grow older. Easier said than done but try focusing on yourself instead of actively searching for a bf?
Woggle Posted March 27, 2013 Posted March 27, 2013 i was not even talking about marriage, I'm talking just commiting to sleeping with one person instead of multiple. Most people who move to the big city don't move to settle down and that is what New York is filled with these days. It's mostly people who come there from Middle America to chase some fantasy that doesn't include commitment.
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