napy666 Posted March 26, 2013 Posted March 26, 2013 I noticed that this guy only talks to me when I text or call him only. But yet he says he's interested in me.
todreaminblue Posted March 26, 2013 Posted March 26, 2013 I noticed that this guy only talks to me when I text or call him only. But yet he says he's interested in me. its hard to understand isnt it? I dont myself, if a guy is really attracted i have always found they initiate...i think it shows apathy not interest to only talk if women initate..........to sit back and wait...apathetic....how do you feel when it is always you initiating......deb
Author napy666 Posted March 26, 2013 Author Posted March 26, 2013 its hard to understand isnt it? I dont myself, if a guy is really attracted i have always found they initiate...i think it shows apathy not interest to only talk if women initate..........to sit back and wait...apathetic....how do you feel when it is always you initiating......deb To me if a guy likes me he should hit me up, show he likes me, talk to me all day or night etc. But this guy isn't doing that.
todreaminblue Posted March 26, 2013 Posted March 26, 2013 To me if a guy likes me he should hit me up, show he likes me, talk to me all day or night etc. But this guy isn't doing that. talking all day or all night is not really realistic.......hitting you up now and again with a call or text is more realistic i she doing that? Showing he likes you can be done in many ways other than words to say as such.....if a guy texts all day or all night.....its too much...too soon.it will fade off..deb
Author napy666 Posted March 26, 2013 Author Posted March 26, 2013 This guy isn't talking to me at all.
Ninjainpajamas Posted March 26, 2013 Posted March 26, 2013 This guy isn't talking to me at all. Then stop initiating contact...let him go, don't just do all the work its only going to make you look desperate. 3
snowflakes88 Posted March 26, 2013 Posted March 26, 2013 This guy isn't talking to me at all. Then no, he isn't interested. Simple. 2
Author napy666 Posted March 29, 2013 Author Posted March 29, 2013 Last night I started talking to this guy online. We exchanged Skype and cell numbers and last spoke around 1:30AM. Today came and went and no word from him. I didn't bother texting or calling him because I wanted to see if he would do it. He didn't contact me whatsoever. So should I wait until he hits me up or should I hit him up?
Gottabestrong Posted March 29, 2013 Posted March 29, 2013 So should I wait until he hits me up or should I hit him up? Wait! If he never initiates contact he is probably not interested in you.
Vogeltron Posted March 29, 2013 Posted March 29, 2013 Male giving advice If he is interested he will contact you. If he waits several days he is normally a d-bag and probably not worth your time. Somebody really interested will contact you within a day or so or else have damn a good excuse. Otherwise he is more than likely wasting your time, will probably just give you the run around. Last night I started talking to this guy online. We exchanged Skype and cell numbers and last spoke around 1:30AM. Today came and went and no word from him. I didn't bother texting or calling him because I wanted to see if he would do it. He didn't contact me whatsoever. So should I wait until he hits me up or should I hit him up?
RhapsodyinBlue Posted March 29, 2013 Posted March 29, 2013 (edited) I noticed that this guy only talks to me when I text or call him only. But yet he says he's interested in me. May I ask how long you two have been 'talking'? (you and the first guy) Edited March 29, 2013 by RhapsodyinBlue
veggirl Posted March 29, 2013 Posted March 29, 2013 Last night I started talking to this guy online. We exchanged Skype and cell numbers and last spoke around 1:30AM. Today came and went and no word from him. I didn't bother texting or calling him because I wanted to see if he would do it. He didn't contact me whatsoever. So should I wait until he hits me up or should I hit him up? You expect a guy you have spoken to ONCE to call you every day? I know this isn't the original guy but the issue is the same....you are super needy and need to relax. But yes if you are ALWAYS the one who has to initiate, you should just stop because HJNTIY
Author napy666 Posted March 29, 2013 Author Posted March 29, 2013 May I ask how long you two have been 'talking'? (you and the first guy) Me and that first guy are history. I am focusing on this new guy and hope I hear from him.
Author napy666 Posted March 30, 2013 Author Posted March 30, 2013 Nope word from him today. I want to contact him but hate making the first move.
RhapsodyinBlue Posted March 30, 2013 Posted March 30, 2013 Me and that first guy are history. I am focusing on this new guy and hope I hear from him. I don't mean for this to sound mean, but honey, you are going to meet a lot of guys who say they 'will call you' and 'want to get to know you.' Many of them will not live up to their word. Think about what you just said. "I am focusing" and "I hope to hear from him." Is he delivering on his end? Every relationship should be a two way street. If he's not focusing on you or reaching out, then don't get your hopes too high...especially from someone you met online. Also, you two just met, so things will definitely take time to progress IF it is meant to be. Don't be willing to give your heart right away to someone so easily because you will get hurt easily and FAST. It's obvious you want a relationship and want to share your love with someone, but it seems like instead of sharing your live, you're trying to give it away. Know your worth and power. Even if you're not talking to a guy, focus on falling in love with yourself. Think about how you can become a better you. I promise it's one of the most beautiful relationships you will ever experience considering it will last for a lifetime ;-) Are you in school? What are some of your favorite hobbies?
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