letitride Posted March 26, 2013 Posted March 26, 2013 I would really like the opinion of some people regarding mysituation. Any opinions would be muchappreciated. I dated this girl on andoff throughout my first 3 and half years of high school. We can call her Rose. We had a great time together however, I neverreally made a serious “move” on her and it eventually ended up killing therelationship. We kind of ended ourrelationship badly and ended up not even friends. I was very shy and nervous with girls duringmy high school years and I really resent that today. I never really put a move on her and all wedid was kiss. Today, I do not get nervousor shy anymore and have had a lot of experience with girls. We both went off to different colleges and ithas been over 3 years since the last time we spoke and I still think about herand how perfect she was for me. RecentlyI have found myself thinking about her even more than usual and it really makesme want to contact her and see if we can see each other and hang out and seewhat happens. The problem with that isshe has had a boyfriend for about 2 years now and it seems pretty serious. We are both going to be graduating soon andwill be returning home for the summer. Iwas thinking about contacting her through facebook by saying long time no talkand that we should get together sometime next time were both in town to catchup. I just don’t know if that would be appropriatesince we haven’t spoken in such a long time, the fact she has a pretty seriousboyfriend and the fact we didn’t really end our relationship on the bestnote. I feel that I just need to go forit and see what she has to say so I can move on if she is not interested. Please share any opinions that can help shedsome light on my situation and what I should do. Thanks in advance for any responses.
lovelyde Posted March 26, 2013 Posted March 26, 2013 Things are broken for reason. Go find something perfect.
LovesHangover Posted March 30, 2013 Posted March 30, 2013 If you really want to contact her, then go for it. I 100% disagree with lovelyde. There aren't any perfect situations or people. If she matters that much to you , there is no harm in you contacting her even if it is just to clear up the past and move on or something else. If you don't contact her, you'll never know. Wouldn't you rather know? Your contacting her will not destroy either of your lives. Trust me! I think that it is better to be authentic and live your life than to follow the advice of people who don't fully understand you or your situation. I don't think there's anything wrong with reaching out to people and letting them know you care, but that is what works for me. I advise you to be authentic and find what works for you and do that. Good luck to you!
iouaname Posted March 30, 2013 Posted March 30, 2013 If she has a boyfriend right now then I really think that it's inappropriate for you to make contact with her with the intentions of getting her back.
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