crustyjojo Posted March 25, 2013 Posted March 25, 2013 Hi - just trying to get an alternative perspective on a situation I'm in. My BF has gone back to his ex after 8 months since break up. Whilst with me he told me a whole bunch of stuff about his ex. She was selfish, not maternal (hes a family kind of guy), had issue with him being with his friends, not considerate etc etc. For whatever reason, she has decided she wants him back and has promised she has changed. His family do not believe her and want nothing to do with her, but he says he has unresolved feelings for her and is giving it another go. There is 15 years age difference between them. As much as I'm upset that he left me for her, I dont want him hurt again either. I know info is just what he told me, but I'd be interested in peoples thoughts
Addison312 Posted March 26, 2013 Posted March 26, 2013 Highly unlikely that the selfish ex gf has changed. They'll break up again, of course. It didn't work the first time. You shouldn't care if he gets hurt because he hurt you! Who gives a crap about HIM?! 1
lovelyde Posted March 26, 2013 Posted March 26, 2013 You should never give someone who dumped you or cheated on you a second chance. Move on and find someone who loves you for who you are and won't blemish his/her record. 1
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