white_angelbreath Posted September 11, 2004 Posted September 11, 2004 For the guys: 1. What do you do when you like a girl? 2. What do you do when your not interested with the girl?
FOX Posted September 11, 2004 Posted September 11, 2004 When i like a girl i will smile at her a lot and try to make eye contact a few times before intorducing my self and i will chat with her as much as possible. If i dont like her i will probably just do a nod smile if she looks at me and dont have many conversation.
danny8630 Posted September 12, 2004 Posted September 12, 2004 1) i try to make obvious attention towards her--especially attempt to engage a one-on-one conversation. 2)i don't really pay special attention to her, probably limited or no communication. VERY unwanted when the girl you are not attracted to starts flirting. Tip: girls who make first moves like engaging a conversation makes guys much more comfortable and will probably become more talkative.
Zakar Posted September 13, 2004 Posted September 13, 2004 When I like a girl, I'll "coincidentally" show up at the same place she is all the time. I'll find where she hangs out and come up with all kinds of excuses to go there. Along the same lines, if a girl leaves a hangout, I'll leave soon after. When a girl I like shows up somewhere unexpectedly, I go crazy. I'm like, "Holy cow! It's so cool you came!" My eyebrows go up, I bust a genuine smile, I talk louder. If a girl I'm not interested in shows up unexpectedly, I'm like, "Hey... what's up? How are you?" My eyes don't light up, it's just a casual greeting. It's all in the eyes. I'll always go out of my way to make contact with a girl I like. Anything that'll work. Guys are like Pavlov's dogs when it comes to contact. If I like a girl who touches me whenever I talk about broccoli, I will (often on a subconsious level) bring up the topic of broccoli all the time. It works for anything. Whatever we do that initiates contact, we will repeat. When I'm not into a girl, I'll often be very comfortable around her, talk to her all the time, make eye contact and smile, tell jokes, etc... With a girl I'm interested in, I'll do the opposite. When I really like a girl, I'll often intentionally refrain from giving any signs that I like her. In my mind, the risks of her figuring out I'm interested outweigh the potential benefits. Guys are afraid to show weakness, and being attracted to a girl is a weakness because it gives her power over him.
Author white_angelbreath Posted September 13, 2004 Author Posted September 13, 2004 Really? Are you, guys, afraid to let the girl you like that you like her because it makes you less in control? I mean, that if the girl knew, then she'll have sort of a power over you. Is it really true that most guys are afraid to lose control? Is control a really big issue?
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