crustyjojo Posted March 25, 2013 Posted March 25, 2013 Very confused - my ex went back to his ex after 8 months after break up as she sought reconcilliation. He left me to go back with her. His family absolutely dont approve of her. I still see him socially and he approaches me for contact - there is still some spark there from both sides Anyone had any experience of ex going back with ex then coming back to you and how did it work out?
veggirl Posted March 25, 2013 Posted March 25, 2013 Why would you ever take a man back who has left you for another woman? What if you take him back and then she decides she wants him back again? He'd go again. You are his back up, his 2nd choice. Don't settle for that! This is a no-brainer!
Author crustyjojo Posted March 25, 2013 Author Posted March 25, 2013 I guess it is a little more complicated than I said. The issue for him is unresolved feelings for the ex as she broke up with him. What I am finding confusing/difficult is his family being insistant that she is the wrong person for him, but I know he needs to find that out for himself. That I actually do understand. I have family who in their past got back together with exes who went back to exes for a while but came back. I guess I am really asking if there are other people out there who have had a similar experience and am asking whether things did or did not work out in the long term
Simon Phoenix Posted March 25, 2013 Posted March 25, 2013 I have a hard time seeing this working out in your favor.
veggirl Posted March 26, 2013 Posted March 26, 2013 Well when I was young and stupid, a guy dumped me for another girl and then came back to me after about a year and I took him back. He actually was all in at that point, but I could never get over the queasyness I felt over being left for someone and then taking that fool back, and I ended up dumping him a few months later. Your ex never should've been dating if he wasn't over his ex.
lovelyde Posted March 26, 2013 Posted March 26, 2013 (edited) Stop wasting your time on that good-for-nothing retard. Let his life go to waste. Why don't you date around? Other guys would love to pamper you with luxury. There are always better men out there for you. Trust me on this one. Once you start dating again, you'll be happy you got an upgrade for free. It doesn't take much to get an upgrade on your boyfriend. Replace him with a better lover. Much like an old cellphone, it's time you get a newer sleeker cellphone. - Edited March 26, 2013 by lovelyde
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