venuss Posted March 25, 2013 Posted March 25, 2013 ..but it's wearing off. He also sounded mad at me, will it wear-off for him too? Is breakup affecting you in any negative way? I used to be really relaxed and happy but ever since he started acting like a jerk I have been feeling anxious! I used to go exercise 4-5 days in a week, haven't done that in last 8 days!! I did made plans to go jog with a friend yesterday but gave her excuse and did not go! Sometimes I feel like crying and cry too. I am also not watching what I am eating and eating too much!! How do we deal with all this? I thought being dumper is better than being dumpee!
destroyed4sho Posted March 25, 2013 Posted March 25, 2013 Ofcourse breakups affect people in negative ways!!!! Are you grieving over him or feeling sorry for yourself? This guy sounds like a total jerk, you dodged a bullet anf saved yourself.months if not years of bs with this man.
Author venuss Posted March 25, 2013 Author Posted March 25, 2013 Ofcourse breakups affect people in negative ways!!!! Are you grieving over him or feeling sorry for yourself? This guy sounds like a total jerk, you dodged a bullet anf saved yourself.months if not years of bs with this man. Before I got involved with him I have known him to be a very reasonable person, and initially he did put in a lot of effort to meet me and respecting my boundaries but that did not last for more than 2-3 months and from past couple of months all I was hearing was 'high time when are we doing it!!' Each time he would ask for 'it'..I would give excuses to meet at his place, busy with work (mostly). Then had enough of it and said waht I said. Was I too harsh to tell him his intent was shameful! His immediate reaction was ' I am misintrepreting and I am stupid!! and I said ..bad excuse. I was really frustrated with his ultimatums!!and attitude 'Lets do it otherwise lets not waste each others time!!!!' I shouldn't have to sleep with him to keep him!! But what really hurts that I knew him to be a really nice guy. I also get this feeling that if he ever dates anyone again I should warn the girl of his inetent!! And may be check with his ex why they broke up! I miss all the passion, miss talking to him, miss having someone calling me names and all the love you(s), can never have enough of them. It's driving me crazy!!
Author venuss Posted March 25, 2013 Author Posted March 25, 2013 (edited) This guy sounds like a total jerk, you dodged a bullet anf saved yourself.months if not years of bs with this man. This metaphor has helped me a lot for some reason..I am feeling better ever since I read it! Thank you. Edited March 25, 2013 by venuss
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