MW93i Posted March 25, 2013 Posted March 25, 2013 Broke up again, but.. It looks like she's been cheating on me. When we broke up there was this guy who was interested in her texting and stuff. Made moves and even followed us into a casino when we were making up on her BIRTHDAY. Now, we've broke up again. She tells me I've changed and stuff we still speak a few days after she tells me she loves me still but I broke contact as she told me she was never getting back with me. I delt with that, a few days later she's out on town and bragging she's pulled two guys in the club. Over Facebook... a little while later she puts a image on instagram saying how simple it is getting over someone. So she's moving on, this guy comes back into the picture... I go on her instagram and see a photo of him 'spent the day watching films with birthday boy x' and ask my friend to check the lads Facebook and funly enough there is a picture of her on his. Anyways, it all seems fishy.. I decide to dive further into her instagram and see a photo of them both on a night out as 'friends' 5 WEEKS AGO, We've been broken up 3.. I remember her saying it was "nothing" It's all pointing to her cheating isnt it... I don't know what to do, I'm a mess. Oh and to add... He was posting on her wall while we were STILL together.
Am4Real Posted March 25, 2013 Posted March 25, 2013 Been there done that. Nothing you can do; it's her choice and she has made it. Heal as best you can now. Broke up again, but.. It looks like she's been cheating on me. When we broke up there was this guy who was interested in her texting and stuff. Made moves and even followed us into a casino when we were making up on her BIRTHDAY. Now, we've broke up again. She tells me I've changed and stuff we still speak a few days after she tells me she loves me still but I broke contact as she told me she was never getting back with me. I delt with that, a few days later she's out on town and bragging she's pulled two guys in the club. Over Facebook... a little while later she puts a image on instagram saying how simple it is getting over someone. So she's moving on, this guy comes back into the picture... I go on her instagram and see a photo of him 'spent the day watching films with birthday boy x' and ask my friend to check the lads Facebook and funly enough there is a picture of her on his. Anyways, it all seems fishy.. I decide to dive further into her instagram and see a photo of them both on a night out as 'friends' 5 WEEKS AGO, We've been broken up 3.. I remember her saying it was "nothing" It's all pointing to her cheating isnt it... I don't know what to do, I'm a mess. Oh and to add... He was posting on her wall while we were STILL together.
TheFriend Posted March 25, 2013 Posted March 25, 2013 I know exactly what you are probably thinking right now.... "Why the hell do i want her STILL after all of that". Isn't love crazy?! Unbelievable well just remember if someone cheated, they do not respect or deserve what you have to offer. Does it help or make it worse having had a "2nd chance"? I don't know if it ever works unless a lot of time has passed. How long had it been before y'all got back together. Stay strong brother.
Author MW93i Posted March 25, 2013 Author Posted March 25, 2013 Been there done that. Nothing you can do; it's her choice and she has made it. Heal as best you can now. How can I heal? This is the first time I've seemly been cheated on.. It feels horrible. I know exactly what you are probably thinking right now.... "Why the hell do i want her STILL after all of that". Isn't love crazy?! Unbelievable well just remember if someone cheated, they do not respect or deserve what you have to offer. Does it help or make it worse having had a "2nd chance"? I don't know if it ever works unless a lot of time has passed. How long had it been before y'all got back together. Stay strong brother. It had been 3 month or so. :/
polyglot Posted March 25, 2013 Posted March 25, 2013 Dude, don't care for such people. Does it go any good looking at those pictures? It's freaking painful by all means. Avoid, avoid, move on. Don't waste time on worthless people. 1
Author MW93i Posted March 25, 2013 Author Posted March 25, 2013 Dude, don't care for such people. Does it go any good looking at those pictures? It's freaking painful by all means. Avoid, avoid, move on. Don't waste time on worthless people. I'm very curious, I've always had my suspicions between these two. She's absolutely stupid, he's cheated on all of his past girlfriend and he's also involved heavily with drugs. I could not care less for the relationship, I was close to breaking it off myself but if I have been cheated on, I won't take it lightly.
Am4Real Posted March 25, 2013 Posted March 25, 2013 (edited) How can I heal? This is the first time I've seemly been cheated on.. It feels horrible. Being cheated on is one of the most emotional impacting events that can happen, especially when you find out and confront the situation and they just disappear (if that's what happened to you, it did me). In other words finding out they're cheating helped them break it off with you -- you did the dirty work for them against you. Given that, imagine the character of "her"; imagine what else could or would have happened. Imagine how low her loyalties and priorities are. Then imagine this: she will probably do this again to someone else. It's easier for her the second time, maybe the third time and so on. So imagining all of this, does it sound anything like you? Is this what you would do to someone? From your experiences, probably not, I'd imagine. Do you really care now know this? I know you do at this moment because you can't believe what just happened to you; but when you think about her doing the "dirty" and then pretending with you, I think you can and will change your opinion. Stay on the LS board and talk with us, all of us. We'll do our best to listen and help you through all of this as best we can. Edited March 25, 2013 by Am4Real
Author MW93i Posted March 25, 2013 Author Posted March 25, 2013 Being cheated on is one of the most emotional impacting events that can happen, especially when you find out and confront the situation and they just disappear (if that's what happened to you, it did me). In other words finding out they're cheating helped them break it off with you -- you did the dirty work for them against you. Given that, imagine the character of "her"; imagine what else could or would have happened. Imagine how low her loyalties and priorities are. Then imagine this: she will probably do this again to someone else. It's easier for her the second time, maybe the third time and so on. So imagining all of this, does it sound anything like you? Is this what you would do to someone? From your experiences, probably not, I'd imagine. Do you really care now know this? I know you do at this moment because you can't believe what just happened to you; but when you think about her doing the "dirty" and then pretending with you, I think you can and will change your opinion. Stay on the LS board and talk with us, all of us. We'll do our best to listen and help you through all of this as best we can. Thank you, you just made a lot of sense in my head. I'm sure I will stay around here, the breakup hasn't shook me too much but this has. All I feel like I want to do is get payback, see one of her friends.. someone she knows I don't know, anything that would hurt her. I know thats wrong though, and I won't do that.
Am4Real Posted March 25, 2013 Posted March 25, 2013 All I feel like I want to do is get payback, see one of her friends.. someone she knows I don't know, anything that would hurt her. Find a friend you can talk to, but definitely and I mean definitely DO NOT talk with anyone she knows about this, no matter how tempting. It's not your job to control her morals or beliefs -- it is hers and hers alone. And telling her friends...they probably knew long before you did. The [highlight]cheatee[/highlight] is almost always the last to know, just like the cliche says it's so...
Author MW93i Posted March 25, 2013 Author Posted March 25, 2013 Find a friend you can talk to, but definitely and I mean definitely DO NOT talk with anyone she knows about this, no matter how tempting. It's not your job to control her morals or beliefs -- it is hers and hers alone. And telling her friends...they probably knew long before you did. The [highlight]cheatee[/highlight] is almost always the last to know, just like the cliche says it's so... People are so messed up. I've calmed down now, actually laughing at the picture... Oh well, at least I know for definite 100% that it's completely over and I can move onto better things. I am going out next weekend, I have a feeling they'll be out together.. Should I just shrugg it off? I've warned my friend already to not let me do anything stupid but it still will be very tempting .
Am4Real Posted March 25, 2013 Posted March 25, 2013 Yep, let it go! You'll only make yourself look stupid! People are so messed up. I've calmed down now, actually laughing at the picture... Oh well, at least I know for definite 100% that it's completely over and I can move onto better things. I am going out next weekend, I have a feeling they'll be out together.. Should I just shrugg it off? I've warned my friend already to not let me do anything stupid but it still will be very tempting .
Author MW93i Posted March 25, 2013 Author Posted March 25, 2013 Yep, let it go! You'll only make yourself look stupid! Thank you , How do I delete a post.. She knows about my LS account
Am4Real Posted March 25, 2013 Posted March 25, 2013 Okay, well that's weird! Contact the site administrator and explain the issue. Then, establish a new ID. Thank you , How do I delete a post.. She knows about my LS account
Sugarkane Posted March 25, 2013 Posted March 25, 2013 I'm very curious, I've always had my suspicions between these two. She's absolutely stupid, he's cheated on all of his past girlfriend and he's also involved heavily with drugs. I could not care less for the relationship, I was close to breaking it off myself but if I have been cheated on, I won't take it lightly. So two cheaters. Sounds like they deserve each other?!
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