Confused3232 Posted March 25, 2013 Posted March 25, 2013 Hi All, I met this guy about 6 weeks ago. We talked for a week before deciding to have dinner. Date 1 - things were great, everything clicked. We had dinner and then went for a drink. He kissed me goodnight and then made follow-up plans for Date 2 that night. Even called me on his way home. Ever since then, he has called/texted me every day. Date 2 was dinner at his house (he cooked) and then he brought me to his brother's to meet him (a little fast, but I could tell he was really into me). Date 3 was dinner and a little physical action (not sex). Again, everything was great. He told me how much he liked me and was looking forward to this summer, etc, etc. Date 4 was dinner at his house (he made an amazing meal) and that's where things went to sex which was great. He again made plans with me for a few nights later. Told me he told his parents about me, etc. At this point I am starting the give him the vibe back that I really like him as well and that he makes me happy. Date 5 - I brought sushi to his house and we hung out and then things got physical again (this was this past Wednesday). He didn't make immediate plans when I was leaving this time, but texted me minutes after I left saying he missed me. I knew I had a crazy weekend coming up, so I said if he wanted to see me Saturday or Sunday, just let me know. And he said of course, either. So, I said Saturday. From Wednesday to Saturday the texting was fine, but he complained he was really tired from work each day. So, Friday I asked if he was still up for Saturday and he said "all things are pointing to yes:)" And Friday night he left me a voicemail saying he was thinking of me and that he couldn't wait for our date the next day. Then on Saturday he said he was feeling ill and canceled our plans only hours before I was to be there (via text). I was a little put off, so I just gave him a quick text, so he followed up with a call saying he was sick and was worried I was mad. I was a bit snippy, and just said that I would appreciate a call next time, but I totally understood and hoped he felt better. I followed up with a text saying no worries, I know these things happen and he said "thanks for being so sweet babe." He proceeded to text me that night saying I hope I was having a fun night and then a good night text later...I didn't text him back which was abnormal for me. But this morning I sent him a "good morning" text which he got back to me right away. I asked how he was and a few hours later he got back to me saying he went to church and was feeling better. I texted him back saying "glad you are feeling better babe." NOW NOTHING! I can see he saw my text, but didn't respond. I am not one to chase a man. So, I am concerned he is pushing me way or just fading away. He never rescheduled for another date even when he said he wanted to. And he hasn't texted me back which is odd for him. I am super rusty with relationships, this is my first dating scenerio in over 10 years. I have just seperated from my (cheating husband) and I have two very small children. So, I am probably full of trust issues too. All of you guys...what do I do in the scenario? I first instinct is to just not text him back and wait for him to contact me (if he does). HELP!
Author Confused3232 Posted March 25, 2013 Author Posted March 25, 2013 Oh and I forgot to add, that I started the "relationship" saying I was only looking for something casual...because I have a mess on my hands (divorce, kids). He knew the full deal before going out with me. Also, he is on match.com And this entire time he has been on it nearly daily....
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