KJP Posted March 24, 2013 Posted March 24, 2013 It has been just over 2 months now... And it seems to be getting harder, not easier. Things that weren't effecting me before are now bringing me to tears. Almost every song I hear makes me want to cry. The day my ex and I broke up I deactivated me facebook page. I thought that maybe after 2+ months that I would be ready to get back on. I have a lot of friends from college that I am friends with on facebook, and it is really the only way I keep in touch with them. Anyway... Of course I am stupid and check my ex's facebook page. He has erased anything (posts and pictures) that have anything to do with me...OUCH!!! This hurt more than I can express. I just want to be missed. I just want to be loved. I want him to want me as much as I want him
polyglot Posted March 24, 2013 Posted March 24, 2013 Hmm, so why do you bother for those who doesn't want you. When you know it's clear that he has moved away from you. I don't know the situations that caused your BU, but, let me tell you, if he's showing his back, don't go for him. This feeling of missingness lasts for a short time. If this is the first time, it will last a little longer - if you took so much from your love. Time will make things better dear. Wipe your tears off and spend time with your friends and family.
destroyed4sho Posted March 24, 2013 Posted March 24, 2013 first, dont listen to sad songs..it just makes you feel the bad feelings continuously. second, your goig to need more time. accept the fact that you arr going thru these emotions and it is ok that its been 2 months and your not over it. It may take awhile..but it will happen eventually. ive been 8 months bu and almost 3 months NC...i feel better and i turned the corner but still dealing with the aftermath. thigs will get better. DONT check his fb..no use torturig yourself.
na49 Posted March 24, 2013 Posted March 24, 2013 I kind of needed to read this. I've been considering checking on my ex for a while now, I know that if she deleted all of our pictures and everything that had to do with me it would hurt. She already made a new twitter to get rid of any evidence we were together and that hurt. Facebook stuff would hurt even more. Is he dating anyone new? If he is, does knowing help you at all? I'm really sorry for your situation. I'd suggest blocking him and anyone who knows him. I don't want to delete facebook because it's just something I like to go on to waste time. but I blocked my ex so I can't see her profile. I've also blocked a lot of her friends because I know that they are all traces back to her. which I need to avoid.
Author KJP Posted March 25, 2013 Author Posted March 25, 2013 No, he is not dating anyone new. It's hard because pretty much everyone I know, knows him... I guess that's what happens when you're together for 5 years. So I am back to deactivating my facebook.
polyglot Posted March 25, 2013 Posted March 25, 2013 Try to keep yourself from all of this. Avoid looking at anything that provokes your mind to think of him. Unfortunately, we don't remember stuff from books, but these emotions stick to our mind so much, we can't just forget. It can happen in 2 days or 5 years. That human love. Visit your friends, talk to them, you'll feel better.
destroyed4sho Posted March 25, 2013 Posted March 25, 2013 Try to keep yourself from all of this. Avoid looking at anything that provokes your mind to think of him. Unfortunately, we don't remember stuff from books, but these emotions stick to our mind so much, we can't just forget. It can happen in 2 days or 5 years. That human love. Visit your friends, talk to them, you'll feel better. No, love does not happen in 2 days. You need to stop giving advice..... 1
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