billybob223 Posted March 24, 2013 Posted March 24, 2013 Ok i do not understand i barley have any people i can do activities with and to find new people i chat up girls only and when i am talking with them its not flirty at all more like an innocent conversation and then i eventually ask for there number because i would like to do things as i get bored being alone but here is the problem when i invite them to do something trying to get with them does not cross my mind as much unless they are extremely attractive but i don't really show interest but i am confused i have lost many many girls because i have not moved forward or fast enough for them? what does that mean are they talking about sex or a relationship? i do not understand when you meet someone are you suppose to let them know your intentions as soon as possible weather its sex, relationship, or friendship? because i am the type of person that is always stuck in limbo and nothing moves foward
apple OR orange Posted March 25, 2013 Posted March 25, 2013 think i might be able to nail this... If you need to ask what you need to do on dates as you really dont understand AND you don’t have many (if any) friends. Then you are autistic or have Asperger’s syndrome. You’re in a no win (i know a few people the same). They are giving there numbers as your a "nice guy" they didnt expect you to ring them, so the blow you off with "yeah, i might do", or "maybe" both answers are no.... they just hope you go away. Unfortunately if this is the case then it’s not fixable.
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