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The "Why don't you have a girlfriend" Question


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So Ive been talking this girl for a about two weeks and she recently asked me why I didnt have a Girlfriend. I responded saying that the right girl hasnt been around and that if the right one does come along id be open to dating. I asked her is she was surprised that I was single and she said that she was because Im nice,funny, and attractive. I just wanna know why she would ask me this question. Is it because she can see herself with me? Thank You

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I ask highly attractive girls the same thing. Sometimes it's hard to believe who's single and who's taken.

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She likely sees you as a desirable male, yes.

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So Ive been talking this girl for a about two weeks and she recently asked me why I didnt have a Girlfriend. I responded saying that the right girl hasnt been around and that if the right one does come along id be open to dating. I asked her is she was surprised that I was single and she said that she was because Im nice,funny, and attractive. I just wanna know why she would ask me this question. Is it because she can see herself with me? Thank You

 

Maybe. Would you like to be with her? If so, ask her out.

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So Ive been talking this girl for a about two weeks and she recently asked me why I didn't have a Girlfriend.

 

You missed a perfect opportunity to say: "Because I was waiting for you."

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I hate getting this question! I never know what to say. Just take it as a compliment. She is basically saying you're a catch and it's hard to believe you're single. :)

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if a girl asks you why your single, then this is a 100% confirmation they wont go out with you...

 

If you saw a car for sale, all looks great, so great you wonder why its been for sale for a whole year, you would ask "why hasn’t this car sold", now you are already looking for the reason of whats wrong with it as to why others didnt snap it up.....

 

In all the years ive worked in clubs, i seen women go up to guys then go off for sex, i know (from talks) not one time did they ask "so why are you single", nope, they wanted sex, they did sex..... asking closed ended questions means you have no vested interest in the item.

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You missed a perfect opportunity to say: "Because I was waiting for you."

 

I often say this when guys ask me that question. :laugh:

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You missed a perfect opportunity to say: "Because I was waiting for you."

 

Putting that one away in the cheesy but cute come-back holster.

 

Thanks. :)

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When I was in my MGTOW phase...I would answer:

 

"Um...I thought the goal in life was to be happy".

 

My sarcastic, but non-conflicting way of saying I was not looking to date. I'd tell them if I met the right woman, then I'd give it a try...but I wasn't going to actively seek anymore.

 

I wanted to mainly show that I was done with dating, but I didn't hate women in general.

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