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I can never get what I'm looking for. The men I'm usually the most attracted to are 5'9 and over. However, it seems that the guys the most interested are usually short, 5'5-5'6 and I have zero attraction to short men at all. I dated a short guy for years and really resented the fact that he was not what I wanted. I used to wish he was taller all the time. The relationship was strained and we eventually went separate ways

 

It seems that no matter how ugly the guy is, if he's really tall, he seems to think he's quite the catch and plays a lot of games. I can barely get an ugly 6'0 tall guy to date or committ to me because even they are in high demand. They seem to really realize their value to women despite being facially challaneged. I'm at the point where I am very frustrated and bitter right now. It appears I may have to settle for a guy who is short but that is just not what I want. I dont like short men at all but I don't want to be alone for the rest of my life

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What a tragedy.

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If you can't get an ugly 6'0 guy then what do you look like? Ever think men feel they have to settle for you? If you're beautiful, ALL MEN of ANY HEIGHT would be all over you and wouldn't play any kind of games.

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If you can't get an ugly 6'0 guy then what do you look like? Ever think men feel they have to settle for you? If you're beautiful, ALL MEN of ANY HEIGHT would be all over you and wouldn't play any kind of games.

Well, every woman isn't beautiful now is she?

 

i feel that tall men feel that they can have their pick of any good looking or decent woman, so he doesn't care how pretty you are, there's going to be another girl right around the corner. whereas with short men, they play less games, but I have NO attraction to them whatsoever

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Why would you want to be in a relationship with someone you don't even like? It sounds to me like you're just looking for "a relationship." Any relationship. I think you should be looking for a specific type of person rather than just any tall person.

 

If you aren't attracting the guys you want, don't settle for someone you don't want because you'll end up resenting them as you have in the past and that's not fair to them. Work on yourself until you're attractive to the people you do like. Change what you can change.

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In my experience, if was between me and another girl, the guy ALWAYS chose the "other girl" to officially date. I've never been the girl that got picked or the one who the guy REALLY liked and wanted a relaitonship with. I want to be that charming, dynamic and charismatic girl that draws in a lot of guys the ones who always has a guy who wants to date or marry them. I have been so depressed about this. I think some people are just destined to be alone. Some of us just don't have enough qualities to be sufficient dating material.
Instead of pointing the finger at tall, black, white and older men, you've summarized your situation many years ago.
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Why would you want to be in a relationship with someone you don't even like? It sounds to me like you're just looking for "a relationship." Any relationship. I think you should be looking for a specific type of person rather than just any tall person.

 

If you aren't attracting the guys you want, don't settle for someone you don't want because you'll end up resenting them as you have in the past and that's not fair to them. Work on yourself until you're attractive to the people you do like. Change what you can change.

I have attracted tall men in the past it's just that they dont want to commit to me. the short ones are more likely to do this but they aren't what i want. however I may have to compromise and settle for a guy who isn't my preferred height

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I have attracted tall men in the past it's just that they dont want to commit to me. the short ones are more likely to do this but they aren't what i want. however I may have to compromise and settle for a guy who isn't my preferred height

 

On behalf of all "shorter" guys in the world, I am offended....No, not really. So, you're going to settle for emotional compatibility, substance and love over height, huh? BRRRRRRRRR, the thought.

 

How tall are you?

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This thread is good for a chuckle.

 

Do you see men as just short or tall and that's it?

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Missjones, you might want to pace yourself a little....in roughly a week, you've busted out almost every conceivable way to feel sorry for yourself.

 

Don't run the well dry.

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This thread is good for a chuckle.

 

Do you see men as just short or tall and that's it?

I just have a stronger attraction to tall men. Doesn't matter how nice or caring the short guy is..the chemistry or the attraction on my behalf never that strong. But I would obviously have to compensate if I want a relationship

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Believe me, if a guy is 6' or 6'10" with a busted mug he has it worse than the 5'9" guy with the GQ face.

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I just have a stronger attraction to tall men. Doesn't matter how nice or caring the short guy is..the chemistry or the attraction on my behalf never that strong. But I would obviously have to compensate if I want a relationship

 

I don't know what your situation is like but I disagree that every single tall man has tons of options. If they are ugly or out of shape, they're not in high demand. How tall are you?

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I don't know what your situation is like but I disagree that every single tall man has tons of options. If they are ugly or out of shape, they're not in high demand. How tall are you?

my height has little relevancy if I am not attracted to short men

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Has a lot of relevancy. How tall are you?

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Sucks to be you.

 

I also hope that karma bites you in the ass and no man over 5'6 is ever interested in you.

 

Frankly, as shallow as you are, all men should know to stay the hell away.

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OH NOOO! NOT A SHORT...MAN! (if you can call them men)

 

:(:sick::(:sick:

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lmao @ this thread

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Has a lot of relevancy. How tall are you?

no it doesn't have relevancy at all. i can be 2ft tall it wont make a difference if the attraction is not there

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You don't deserve a short OR a tall man.

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my height has little relevancy if I am not attracted to short men

 

translation: I'm 5'0 but I only want men who are 6'0+

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No one gives a sh it...FYI.

 

I don't get the karma bid but whatev.

 

Do you... :)

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my height has little relevancy if I am not attracted to short men

 

Well in any case you are wrong in your assumption. Look, finding a good attractive committed minded man is not easy. But youre only making it harder by the current attitude and all the self pity you are showing.

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Well in any case you are wrong in your assumption. Look, finding a good attractive committed minded man is not easy. But youre only making it harder by the current attitude and all the self pity you are showing.

The guys who are of my preferred height, are usually taken. This is making me incredibly frustrated.

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What a horrible injustice you are facing.

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