spirius Posted March 24, 2013 Posted March 24, 2013 I have read and taken in all the advice various people have given about no contact and Facebook, but keep waking up feeling intense regret. I asked her to read something I wrote. I basically laid down what I thought and asked her to tell me how she actually feels rather than "I just don't want it". She read it, brought up a couple of points but ultimately she said she still cares about me, but she does not love me anymore. I said, okay if that is the case there is obviously nothing I can do about that so can you please alter your FB settings so non-friends can't see your stuff and we'll stop being FB friends. I also told her I would be removing her friends as well and if they asked to explain why, honestly. This she agreed to do. She also mentioned she hasn't been out in the last two weeks. I know this is a lie as she was at the pub last Tuesday, the pub last night and a message she sent this morning came from the address of a female friend on the other side of town. If find it very unlikely that FB location markers are so badly inaccurate it can put you three miles away from home and, conveniently, at the exact address of a friend. Whatever. Makes me feel like she is lying though. Not my problem now. So that's it, I can't see anything of her now on there now so hopefully I can start getting my head together. I feel relieved in some ways, firstly because I can't check what she is doing and secondly, because I know WHY it is over. I feel fragile, but kind of happy right now.
Wabisabi Posted March 24, 2013 Posted March 24, 2013 She's a terrible liar...gives you a valid reason to be relieved about the break up.
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