Author Pompeii Posted March 24, 2013 Author Posted March 24, 2013 Well are you shy and quiet and never talk to womena and dress like **** and have nothing going for you? Or are you outgoing, approach lots of women, have lots of friends, successful, have a great job, work hard, have lots of interests and do you best to dress and present yourself well at all times? I'm guessing it's the former. Nobody has ZERO interest EVER from anyone, unless they are really making it a point not to interact. Or what is most liekely here, you might have interest but you put zero effort in and are wondering why no "10's" chase you around like a puppy even though you do nothing to persue them. Am I right? I have a feeling I am. Yeah? You think you're right? Sorry, you aren't. I have quite a lot of friends, a laundry list of bobbies, I dress well, I go to one of the best schools in the country, and I'll probably have a great job when I leave. The only think you were right about was number two, maybe number one to an extent. So a bum, I am not. I also don't go after "10s". Now that we've got that cleared up. You're saying nobody has zero interest from anyone? Would you be willing to be your life on that? Would you be willing to bet all of the money you own on that? Because if what you said was true, the human species would cease to exist. Lots of my friends get IOIs from girls. There's no point in me going after a girl and wasting my time if I don't get some sort of indicator that she wants me to talk to her. I'd be better off inserting coins into a slot machine hoping I get a million dollar ticket. I'm not expecting interest from "10s", I'm not expecting interest from sorority girls. I'm just mainly frustrated seeing how all of my friends have these things fall into their laps or have friends hook them up when I have nonesuch. Still, as someone said earlier, I'm glad I have two feet, two hands, two eyes, and the opportunity to better myself and have at least a decent life. Most people don't or won't get it.
Philosopher Posted March 24, 2013 Posted March 24, 2013 Some women will make it obvious that they are interested in you. On the other hand a lot of women will not give out any obvious signals. They may be too shy or embarrassed to show that they are interested. Or they may believe that the guy should make most of the initial moves and will only show that they are interested once you make these initial moves. Unless you ask them out there is no sure fire way to tell they are not interested.
JuneJulySeptember Posted March 24, 2013 Posted March 24, 2013 As much as I disagree with Wholigan's sense of optimism, he has it 100% correct right here. Attractiveness and looks do not always mean the same thing. In fact most of the time they don't. That's not what the OP was arguing though. Or at least I don't think it was. Yes, it's possible to attract a woman if she is not physically attracted to you. I've done it. I don't see how you can argue that. If only guys who have tons of $$$ can prove that. But I thought the question was if at a certain point, women have not expressed physical "off the bat" type attraction to you, will it ever happen in your life? I'd say the answer is not likely.
TheGuard13 Posted March 24, 2013 Posted March 24, 2013 You might not be unattracted as much as you are unapproachable. There might be something about your personality or bearing that prevents people from wanting to approach you in general.
Esoteric Elf Posted March 25, 2013 Posted March 25, 2013 Is it safe to assume that you're unattractive? Sure, why not?
Estate Posted March 25, 2013 Posted March 25, 2013 Ah, such arrogance. I seen that so much these days. Be grateful for what you have. I would love to just take it from you if I ever get the chance to. Eh, WTF was that?
apple OR orange Posted March 25, 2013 Posted March 25, 2013 generally this would be as you didnt show interest in them..
Estate Posted March 25, 2013 Posted March 25, 2013 You're saying nobody has zero interest from anyone? Would you be willing to be your life on that? Would you be willing to bet all of the money you own on that? Because if what you said was true, the human species would cease to exist. Eh, no, I think that's what YOU are saying.. that there are so many people out there who get ZERO interest from women thus will never have kids. *I'M* saying that nobody truely has ZERO interest from anybody ever... thus, the species will live on.... unless those guys are oblivious or rejecting the interest he is getting and not actively seeking to connect with the ones he wants.
Divasu Posted March 25, 2013 Posted March 25, 2013 Is it safe to assume that you're unattractive? Not necessarily. Not all women express their interest the same way. He could give off a 'jerk' vibe, she could be shy/introverted, believes that only men should do the 'approaching', she could have a boyfriend, or a host of other different reasons. I generally try to refrain about assuming things regarding reading a woman's mind Bingo.
Author Pompeii Posted March 25, 2013 Author Posted March 25, 2013 Not necessarily. Not all women express their interest the same way. He could give off a 'jerk' vibe, she could be shy/introverted, believes that only men should do the 'approaching', she could have a boyfriend, or a host of other different reasons. Well, I'm not saying that there should be an overt signal but if a girl was interested in you; you would be able to at least see some kind of sign, no?
Barnacle-Bob Posted March 25, 2013 Posted March 25, 2013 Well, I'm not saying that there should be an overt signal but if a girl was interested in you; you would be able to at least see some kind of sign, no? Not necessarily. Sometimes if a girl likes a guy, she might not want to let on that she does, and sometimes she just goes out of her way to ignore him and not show interest. 1
Divasu Posted March 25, 2013 Posted March 25, 2013 Well, I'm not saying that there should be an overt signal but if a girl was interested in you; you would be able to at least see some kind of sign, no? No, not always. Some women are more subtle with their interest. And if you aren't experienced with picking up on body language, it can be even harder. But like I said, each girl is different. One boyfriend, I had liked from a distance for a couple of months, it was only until we were in close proximity to one another (we were both in a sport league together but on different teams), and he struck up a conversation with me, that's when things took off.
Author Pompeii Posted March 25, 2013 Author Posted March 25, 2013 Not necessarily. Sometimes if a girl likes a guy, she might not want to let on that she does, and sometimes she just goes out of her way to ignore him and not show interest. I can imagine that this is somewhere I'd mess up because I'd probably think a girl's disinterest is actually "playing hard to get" or whatever.
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