Sophia12345 Posted March 24, 2013 Posted March 24, 2013 So I met a guy online about 7 weeks ago. Since day one we have spoke everyday, all day everyday. We spoke about more ales everything. There was no pressure for anything to be turned into a relationship, we just enjoyed talking each other so did. It just happened to end up being all of the time... So anyway after not really talking about meeting or anything last night I went to his house. It was awkward and awful to be honest. Many awkward silences/not knowing what to say. After a couple of hours he dropped me back and we haven't spoke since which in this case feels strange. I know I was talking absolute rubbish because I went to shy which is not like me at all... I'm unsure what to so completely out of my comfort zone here haha! Any ideas how I should proceed or shall I just leave it as it is?
soccerrprp Posted March 24, 2013 Posted March 24, 2013 Two things: 1. With all that constant talking, you could have ran out of things to relate to or talk about...and, 2. Some people are much better at talking when not face-to-face, so for him (or you), when you were now face-to-face, communication suddenly became difficult It happens.
outsidethebox Posted March 24, 2013 Posted March 24, 2013 so they would have stopped meeting after 7 weeks because they ran out of things to say? That's the conclusion to draw from your observation. That there were 7 weeks of chatter in them and it ran out just when they met. Please. "So anyway after not really talking about meeting or anything last night I went to his house." So OP, are you saying you showed up uninvited at his house? That would be awkward after 1 or any number of days texting. I do not believe this is based on "talk" aspects. Most obvious explanation is that there was some mismatch in visual expectations, apparently from him. If you have seen current photos of each other, and rule that out, there would be some surprise factor that you came to his house, not sure why he would be shocked at it, but was apparently uncomfortable about it. Which leads to why no talk of meeting in 7 weeks. There are all sorts of things involved here, and none of them have to do with texting for 7 weeks. Could have been 2 weeks. 1
pies Posted March 24, 2013 Posted March 24, 2013 I agree with outsideofthebox, if after 7 weeks talking you meet and you run out of stuff to say, the actual issue isn't the lack of a conversation subject. Awkward silences are awkward for a reason... 1
outsidethebox Posted March 24, 2013 Posted March 24, 2013 I would add, OP, I would have loved if a girl showed up at my door after texting with her but never happened. But all my texting was LD, otherwise, why would you text and not meet?
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