AverageCat Posted March 24, 2013 Posted March 24, 2013 Being relatively new in the relationship world I wanted some other opinions on boundaries on a relationship and what is acceptable and what is not. Things that I'm OK with: - My girl having girls nights out and getting hit on - My girl going salsa dancing in clubs (where pretty much everyone dances with everyone) - Hang out with guy friends (even one on one) as long as I know them / my gf tells me about them and how they're friends. Things I'm not OK with: - Her giving her # out. - Her txt-flirting with guys she met in clubs before we got in an R. (not sure how much she does this) - Her lying to me, even for insignificant things. Anyone has too add to the list? Or comment? 1
Joaquin Posted March 24, 2013 Posted March 24, 2013 Lol. The whole push pull keep her on her toes with drama tiring you bro.... Thought u had yr gf that was chasing her past (ex bf) under control.
Author AverageCat Posted March 24, 2013 Author Posted March 24, 2013 Lol. The whole push pull keep her on her toes with drama tiring you bro.... Thought u had yr gf that was chasing her past (ex bf) under control. Please stay on topic. Also you're getting things out of context. My gf was never chasing her ex and I am pretty sure I got things under control. Cheers,
Author AverageCat Posted March 24, 2013 Author Posted March 24, 2013 What's the boundary issue then. It's not an issue. It's a general question about what boundaries are good/healthy in a relationship. Has nothing to do with my R. Duh, why do I even bother with you...
Joaquin Posted March 24, 2013 Posted March 24, 2013 Just say what she's done. You'll get much better support.
KungFuJoe Posted March 24, 2013 Posted March 24, 2013 Being relatively new in the relationship world I wanted some other opinions on boundaries on a relationship and what is acceptable and what is not. Things that I'm OK with: - My girl having girls nights out and getting hit on - My girl going salsa dancing in clubs (where pretty much everyone dances with everyone) - Hang out with guy friends (even one on one) as long as I know them / my gf tells me about them and how they're friends. Things I'm not OK with: - Her giving her # out. - Her txt-flirting with guys she met in clubs before we got in an R. (not sure how much she does this) - Her lying to me, even for insignificant things. Anyone has too add to the list? Or comment? They are YOUR boundaries...you can't ask people what YOU should set your boundaries at.
Author AverageCat Posted March 24, 2013 Author Posted March 24, 2013 Im asking people what they think of it / what their boundaries are... I have 2 eggwhites everymorning... but I still read and get people's opinions on a healthy breakfast even though I might still stick to 2 eggwhite...
SJC2008 Posted March 24, 2013 Posted March 24, 2013 Boundaries? Easy! Duct tape a line down the center of the bedroom!
Archgirl Posted March 24, 2013 Posted March 24, 2013 Hello Mr Charming-Cat Missed yoo That all sounds like pretty reasonable basic relationship boundaries. Glad things are going well for you
Author AverageCat Posted March 24, 2013 Author Posted March 24, 2013 Hello Mr Charming-Cat Missed yoo That all sounds like pretty reasonable basic relationship boundaries. Glad things are going well for you 9th post for finally something on topic! Haha yeah, things are going awesome. Blowjob first thing in the morning awesome
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