Treasa Posted March 24, 2013 Posted March 24, 2013 Even though it was mostly mutual, I didn't want it to end. I am not a quitter, not even when things aren't going well. What's strange is that I've gone through such a crazy metamorphosis the past six months that I didn't even cry. I felt the tears well up, but they didn't go past my eyes. I don't feel like it's the end of the world. I don't feel like I won't find someone. I feel a mixture of sadness and relief. I don't want to be with someone who lives with his grandparents and alcoholic, unemployed mother. I don't want to be with someone who can't support himself and gets very easily stressed out. It makes me bitchy, and that's not fair to him. I just wanted to share that you can go through a breakup and be ok, even if not happy (at the moment, over that circumstance), and still live your life.
Sososad Posted March 24, 2013 Posted March 24, 2013 Lucky you .. Very few others have it so easy! Defo sounds like you dodged a bullet though !
Author Treasa Posted March 24, 2013 Author Posted March 24, 2013 I used to be the person who, when a relationship ended, would take WEEKS to get over it, cry constantly, beg, miss work because I couldn't handle dealing with people, and had to have my best friend around me all day and all night, and wanted to kill myself. Believe me, I've been there many, many times. I do agree about the dodging the bullet.
cavalier99 Posted March 24, 2013 Posted March 24, 2013 Sorry gal. Sounds like your holding up ok. Well you definitly know the drill to get over it. Did you end it? Hang in there. Cav
Mme. Chaucer Posted March 24, 2013 Posted March 24, 2013 I'm sorry for the unhappiness of breaking up … but it sounds like you're headed in a better direction.
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