andreajoyce Posted March 24, 2013 Posted March 24, 2013 I was seeing someone for about 3 years. During the last 10 months of it, he was seeing someone else. He told me she was someone he took out now and then,nothing major. Turned out it was a serious relationship, and I found this out from Facebook. Obviously we ended things, on very bad terms. He lied to me alot, and called me horrible names. He ended things with me via text- telling me things had changed and asking for a clean break. We did not talk for 2 months, when he contacted me out of the blue. I was very hesitant at first, but eventually responded. He told me he still liked me and wondered how things would've been between us.He was very flirtatious in his texts and implied we had a chance to date, even offering to stop at my house and visit. I started to believe him and believed this was a second chance for us. Then I checked his girlfriends Facebook account and it was clear he didn't have any intention of ending things with her. I started to question his motives and he would give vague replies. So I got angry and told him off. I told him it was all or nothing and that if his games continued I would tell his girlfriend. (nothing happened between us, it was simply talking this time) Ultimately, he chose her and said he's in a relationship and although he likes me, he won't act on those feelings. It seems like he was just playing games with me again, and I'm very angry. He said he would like a clean break again and doesn't want to give me any false hope that we can be together. I tried to text him earlier, and he didn't respond. I'm having a hard time dealing with the fact that I was played by him yet again. Any advice?
Am4Real Posted March 24, 2013 Posted March 24, 2013 You summarized well what he is and what he has done to you. Seriously, this guy was in a ten-month dual relationship and would consider taking him back? Let’s put it into fact: he has been putting his ding-dong in wing-ding for ten months while doing the same to you and continues to do so while flirting with you. This guy must have quite the ding-dong! Look, you’re in a bad place with him in your life. Cut him off and work on yourself. He will only continue to use you! I was seeing someone for about 3 years. During the last 10 months of it, he was seeing someone else. He told me she was someone he took out now and then,nothing major. Turned out it was a serious relationship, and I found this out from Facebook. Obviously we ended things, on very bad terms. He lied to me alot, and called me horrible names. He ended things with me via text- telling me things had changed and asking for a clean break. We did not talk for 2 months, when he contacted me out of the blue. I was very hesitant at first, but eventually responded. He told me he still liked me and wondered how things would've been between us.He was very flirtatious in his texts and implied we had a chance to date, even offering to stop at my house and visit. I started to believe him and believed this was a second chance for us. Then I checked his girlfriends Facebook account and it was clear he didn't have any intention of ending things with her. I started to question his motives and he would give vague replies. So I got angry and told him off. I told him it was all or nothing and that if his games continued I would tell his girlfriend. (nothing happened between us, it was simply talking this time) Ultimately, he chose her and said he's in a relationship and although he likes me, he won't act on those feelings. It seems like he was just playing games with me again, and I'm very angry. He said he would like a clean break again and doesn't want to give me any false hope that we can be together. I tried to text him earlier, and he didn't respond. I'm having a hard time dealing with the fact that I was played by him yet again. Any advice?
LMNO Posted March 24, 2013 Posted March 24, 2013 I agree. Sounds like a total douche. You deserve way better than that.
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