ChrisC81 Posted March 24, 2013 Posted March 24, 2013 So, I went out last night with a girlfriend. We saw one of my ex's friends at a bar. Talked to him a little bit and went on our way. He called my ex and told him we were there. We ended up leaving and staying the area, going to another bar. We saw the ex. When he saw me I was dancing with a guy. He walked up and said "work it girl" and called me a skank. Talked a little smack to the guy, and they ended up fighting outside. Before the fight he texted me and said "really???" and then after the fight he texted me and said "I f***ing hate you. Don't even use my netflix, I don't even want to see what your watching". I did not respond. Wow. We were 6 weeks NC. Just sharing the story. Curious what other think about this.
TaraMaiden Posted March 24, 2013 Posted March 24, 2013 "I don't want you, and I don't want anyone else wanting you either". That's his phukked-up logic..... You're moving on, and living life. Good for you. Well done. That hurts his Ego. How could you do that to him? You're supposed to pine, wail, rant rave and weep, gnash your teeth and be clingy and needy. He's the Skank. What a jerk..... 2
witmadskilllz Posted March 24, 2013 Posted March 24, 2013 What he did was absolutely wrong but, at the same time, I can also relate to his pain during that moment. Some people move on faster, some even slower and you never know until you see your ex again without any old feelings resurfacing. Your ex still had feelings for you but at the time, it was really hard for him to suppress these feelings all at once and be irrational about it too. I believe the drama could have been avoided completely if he didn't see you/wasn't in the same bar/club.
KatZee Posted March 24, 2013 Posted March 24, 2013 What he did was absolutely wrong but, at the same time, I can also relate to his pain during that moment. Some people move on faster, some even slower and you never know until you see your ex again without any old feelings resurfacing. Your ex still had feelings for you but at the time, it was really hard for him to suppress these feelings all at once and be irrational about it too. I believe the drama could have been avoided completely if he didn't see you/wasn't in the same bar/club. OK but if he's the one that dumped her, he has no right acting like a little b.itch. He's just upset she's not completely devastated that they're over. Boo hoo to his fragile little ego. Sounds like a complete hot mess to me. I'd be thrilled I was single and dancing with other dudes too if that's what my ex acted like.
Am4Real Posted March 24, 2013 Posted March 24, 2013 Great story, very entertaining, LOL. Try and stay clear of common areas for some time. I'm sure you knew he was capable of this type of behavior, especially if the break up was rocky. Don't get me wrong -- it's all him -- but now that you've seen this type of behavior "again", try and stay away. And congrats to his friend for letting him know where you are, great bunch you were tied up with once, eh? They're out of your life now...be free.
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