Would this do any good?

[Older 'n' wiser]

What would happen if I sent my sister-in-law - the OW in my H's LTA - this URL link for my post about her in another thread?

 

She already hates me - a fact I discovered slowly after d-Day when I thought she'd be equally as remorseful as my H and willing to own the mistake but realized she'd been working on resenting me, with his help I suppose, for years. I can never again be in the same room with her anyway, so what would it hurt?

 

She'd have to think about telling my brother, her husband, the truth. She hasn't had to tell anyone except her sons and that was only because we told her we were telling our children, their cousins, and our kids would've told them if she hadn't. She even said to me once that I don't know my brother and he would not have reacted like a typical BS (she was implying he has no feelings).

Edited March 24, 2013 by Older 'n' wiser

[Poppy fields]

Sending that to her would probably do nothing except confirm to her that you are trying to bully her into confessing. It is a passive aggressive move that will not likely yield your desired results.

[LFH]

I agree with Poppy. What is your desired result from doing so?

[Older 'n' wiser]

I read your post in that thread. What a terrible position you are in with your brothers medical issues.

 

Just my opinion but I don't think sending her a link to that thread will do you any good. If you are going to confront her, confront her and I wouldn't bring LS into it as you will give up your safe place to post.

 

As for telling your brother......I don't know what to tell you, such a terrible position for you to be in. Have you ever thought about consulting a lawyer since you are worried about her being his caretaker and what might happen to him if you do confront her and tell him what went on? Maybe that is the best approach, get some legal advice since your brother is in her care.

 

I am embarrassed to say I haven't since, on reading your post, it's such a no-brainer. I really need to do that!