Called my ex after a month of no contact. She still hasn´t got back to me. What now?

[fmart318]

I'm guessing is to just wait a bit more. For at least her to contact me.

 

A little insight:

The break up, although really hard for both of us, had to do with the relationship going stale.

I'm positive she isn't seeing anybody else.

Earlier this week I got a birthday text from her (which was really sweet and thoughtful), so I thought the air had cleared up a bit and we could sit down and really talk about things.

 

Getting back to the matter:

She still hasn't got back to me and I don't think she will anytime soon. Do I call her up a few days from now or just stay cold till she calls me back? It's probably the second answer. I'm just confused and lost right now and having a lot of trouble trying to move on from this point. Thanks for the support!

[Cogee]

Who initiated the break up? If it was mutual then you might try calling one more time, otherwise leave it be.

[TaraMaiden]

The thing about No Contact is that really, it shouldn't be broken....

 

 

Her Birthday message was really what you might simply call 'breadcrumbs'.

 

By the scoop-ful.

Read my signature link - it's a good thread, with the definitive No Contact Guide in the first post, and a shed-load of breadcrumbs - in the guise of posts and comments form other members - to follow.

 

Read it all.

Hopefully, you'll get it.....