Dairakidood Posted March 23, 2013 Posted March 23, 2013 So the girl I've been seeing for 6 months just said we shouldn't be seeing each other anymore until she sort out her feelings. We've known each other for just over a year and at that time she was in a relationship. We started dating soon after she broke up with her ex of 3 years and she started to develop feelings for me as I did too. During the 6 months, we went on many dates, we hugged, kissed, and made out but we never had sex (she's still a virgin and has always said she wanted to save it for that special person). So this whole time she's been saying how her ex is a bum, treats her poorly, sucks at school, plays video games all day, and doesn't help her with stuff when she needs help. She's told me countless times how she always saw him as a sibling more than a lover. But no matter how bad it seems, she still seems torn in terms of feelings right now. I know for a fact that she isn't playing games with me and that she genuinely likes me. She said she wished we met a bit later in life when she's completely ready for a relationship. I like this girl a lot and we're both are serious about relationships. Should I wait for when she's absolutely ready or should I move on?
AwptiK Posted March 23, 2013 Posted March 23, 2013 You shouldn't ever wait. It might happen down the road, but it will likely not. Waiting, worrying, planning, expecting...none of those are going to change the future. Sounds like you ended up being the outlet for her feelings about her past relationship, a "rebound". Just leave her be, go NC, and find yourself again.
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