jlkbl12 Posted March 23, 2013 Posted March 23, 2013 Me and my ex-gf broke up 3 years ago but managed to stay friends the entire time. We even hung out a few times but that was years ago. We both moved on (or so I thought), and she ended up getting married the following year. She invited me to her wedding, changed her mind about wanting me there, invited me again and once again changed her mind. I dealt with her wishy-washy ways and still had no hard feelings towards her. She still talked to me after she got married and soon our conversations turned into flirting. A few months ago she told me that her husband got a job in another state and she would be joining him there but she wanted to see me one last time before she left. SHE has made plans with me three times to meet and each time it falls through on her end. Is she playing games? Why would she want to leave without saying goodbye if she still has feelings for me? She leaves next week and I don't know what to do.
soccerrprp Posted March 23, 2013 Posted March 23, 2013 She's married. Don't do anything. Don't meet her. If you do, it will NOT be good for either of you. Leave her alone....
NewPerspective93 Posted March 23, 2013 Posted March 23, 2013 I would advise you to let it go. It seems like she still harbors some sort of sentiment, hence the invitiation/cancellations she's given to you. Also, she's married. Don't go in between them. It won't end well if you do. Let her live her life, and you live yours. If there really was something between you, you'll find each other some other time. I could be wrong, but don't read too much into this. Cheers.
Damsel in Distress Posted March 24, 2013 Posted March 24, 2013 You have to just let her go. No need for a goodbye. She has a life with somebody new. She's no-showed on you three times already! Do NOT call her. She is not doing you any favors by reminding you of the relationship you used to have with her. She's just keeping your hope alive...but there is no hope! She's married! She's moving! She has a new life and you aren't part of it. I know I'm sounding harsh, but until you can kill off that hope you are going to stay in pain and not move on with your life. Stay strong!
youdunsay Posted March 24, 2013 Posted March 24, 2013 Don't meet her at all. She is married and she stamp her life that she's going to live old with that man, doesn't matter what she feels (wishy-washy) or something. Send her well wishes and embrace a new chapter of your life!
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