venuss Posted March 23, 2013 Posted March 23, 2013 This is my previous thread: http://www.loveshack.org/forums/breaking-up-reconciliation-coping/breaks-breaking-up/381259-will-he-back Can we be friends again? I do want to be around him ... I know it has only been 6 days of NC but it hurts so much and the thought that he could be a jerk doesn't helps !!
ThatJustHappened Posted March 23, 2013 Posted March 23, 2013 No. Definitely, 100%, unequivocally no. You cannot be friends with him. 1
Wabisabi Posted March 23, 2013 Posted March 23, 2013 I read your other thread. So you mean you don't want the relationship now and wanna remain friends?
Author venuss Posted March 23, 2013 Author Posted March 23, 2013 I read your other thread. So you mean you don't want the relationship now and wanna remain friends? I was thinking..since I have been thinking too much lately.. If we keep fighting over difference of opinion or we have different expectations then can I not friendzone him? I like spending time with him , even if its with common friends. We can meet/talk once in a while. So a part of me longs for him and don't want to lose him. Then there is a (very practical) part of me that says, what I did is what he deserved, good that I rejected him, he was a jerk, now toss him out of your mind move on and have fun!! I feel tangled in my mind!! I guess everyone knows whether they want their ex to be back or not. I am not clear, do I want him back? do I want him to stay away for good? good riddance! One thing I am clear about though, being friends will be the best for sure!!
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