lawfer19 Posted March 23, 2013 Posted March 23, 2013 It's been almost a year since we broke up and my tears keep falling every night. I know that we fought a lot when we were together especially because she cheated on me on the on set. We tried to work it out but it never did and I still can't move on. What can I do to make myself okay? Been travelling lately and doing stuff with friends but it doesn't quite help.
NewPerspective93 Posted March 23, 2013 Posted March 23, 2013 (edited) It's been almost a year? When was the last time you contacted her? I feel that a year is too long of a time span to still not be over someone. Have you actually tried to move on? Traveling is great for that, but you have to be more heavy in regards to what you do to not think of her. Take up a hobby, something to keep you busy that you won't waste anytime pining over the other person. If you've had contact lately, I suggest you implement NC, which will most beneficial to you at this moment. Also, take time to work on yourself. Buy yourself a new wardrobe, get involved in stuff that you might be interested in, do SOMETHING for yourself. Pining over her will not help you out for the better, but will only dig you deeper into the hole you're in. Let it go, this is for the best. You'll be stronger once you move on completely. I understand how you might be feeling, but you owe yourself the peace of mind. Sometimes ignorance is bliss, and I feel it might help you out substantially here if you don't know what she's up to. Live YOUR life, don't make someone else's life your own. Cheers. Edited March 23, 2013 by NewPerspective93 1
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