chrisftw Posted March 23, 2013 Posted March 23, 2013 there's this girl i've been trying my damnedest to schmooze. me and her go way back. like years at least 5 of them. for at least 3 of those years she was obsessed with me but i was coming off of a terrible break up and i was really fighting my own demons. i didn't want to commit. hell i didn't even want to have sex with this woman. sometimes stress and loss we all deal with differently i tend to deal with my demons internally. without outside intervention. anyway having passed that stage i wanted to see if i could rekindle anything. i failed. in fact she freindzoned me in the most epic way possible. "i don't know what your intentions are but you hurt me for years. my feelings for you have changed. and i would just like to be friends. plus XX and Me are having a baby so i would like as little stress as possible." the fact that this girl has no job, no home and no friends i was in shock. her friends were mine. She lives in her ex boyfriends mom's basement while her baby daddy lives with his mom. her car has been repoed TWICE. she can hardly pay for a salad at a restaurant. i told her. "i respectfully decline your friendzone request and i hope to god you either abort or you put you bastard child up for adoption. you can't support yourself, you can't even pay your rent which is why you were evicted from you apartment. and you think because you have a kid that makes you special. you're nothing but a statistic now.. a trashy one at that." i suppose i took that gracefully no?
RandomName12 Posted March 23, 2013 Posted March 23, 2013 What are you bragging? You sound like a complete arsehole to be honest. 1
chex Posted March 23, 2013 Posted March 23, 2013 What are you bragging? You sound like a complete arsehole to be honest. Seconded. Because a girl isn't into you is no reason to be such an ass. You seem realllly bitter about it.
Author chrisftw Posted March 23, 2013 Author Posted March 23, 2013 What are you bragging? You sound like a complete arsehole to be honest. I wasn't bragging. I was giving a field report of an instance where ingot friendzoned. I suppose to you I should have validated her and then said to myself ill keep being your friend and giving her help to pay her bills as I've done in the past. I only stated the surface of the issue. I also didn't mention that before she friendzoned me she hit me up for 2500. When I declined she gave me that speech. Think before you speak. Or at least ask for detail about the matter
applej4 Posted March 23, 2013 Posted March 23, 2013 OP, you obviously feel rejected, hurt and angry. Well, that's life so grow up. She doesn't need a 'friend' like you. What she does, where she lives, etc. is not your business. Move on.
chex Posted March 23, 2013 Posted March 23, 2013 I wasn't bragging. I was giving a field report of an instance where ingot friendzoned. I suppose to you I should have validated her and then said to myself ill keep being your friend and giving her help to pay her bills as I've done in the past. I only stated the surface of the issue. I also didn't mention that before she friendzoned me she hit me up for 2500. When I declined she gave me that speech. Think before you speak. Or at least ask for detail about the matter You should've told us in the first place, that's kind of a big deal. Why didn't you just tell her she'd be on her own and leave? If this other guy is so great, shouldn't he take care of her?
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