Author gozunder Posted March 24, 2013 Author Posted March 24, 2013 You didn't have to say it, it is the unsaid point of the entire exercise of trying to find a women. Especially one you will never marry because mama and papa are negotiating with the parents of a single girl to join your families. People of any race, when they specifically target some other culture it is for a reason. Now most men want sex, regardless of race. If sex is not the reason you want to leave your cultural group for a specific other group then what is it? Are you like the yellow fever sufferers who claim that Asian women make better mothers because they have not been "contaminated" by western feminism, in other words they have not rejected past norms and they may be able to find their very own virgin. Are you giving this trait to another "other group", White in your specific case? I might marry a White woman if she's not slutty, if she's not a gold digger, if she's not someone looking to date me just because she wants a piece of my wallet. And I have made it pretty clear earlier that my parents wouldn't mind as long as I am happy, read it properly before jumping to conclusions. I am not specifically targeting White women, they are just the majority over where I live so if I have to date someone purely based on the law of numbers, that means that I have to give White women a shot. But going by your posts and a lot of other posts in this forum, it seems like they would have no problem sleeping around with men of races that are higher up on the social ladder they made up while they would twist their panties in a bunch if it's an Indian man(no matter what his outlook is and stuff). Thanks for making that amply clear.
Roadkill007 Posted March 24, 2013 Posted March 24, 2013 \ Now I see why a lot of women act as if they are grossed by merely being around my presence, while they would have absolutely no problem if a White/Black dude acted the same way, if this isn't veiled racism I don't know what else is. So all the advise to a man about having a good personality, demeanor and class are invalid if he doesn't even belong to the "right" race. Hmmm. Just wondering, why would you even care if some bigots dismiss you simply because of your race? there's plenty of non-bigots, and bigots being that obvious make it quite easy to dodge a bullet. It's not the 99 that say no that matter, it's the one that says yes.
Author gozunder Posted March 24, 2013 Author Posted March 24, 2013 Just wondering, why would you even care if some bigots dismiss you simply because of your race? there's plenty of non-bigots, and bigots being that obvious make it quite easy to dodge a bullet. It's not the 99 that say no that matter, it's the one that says yes. Could be. However reading a lot of this stuff online has made me extremely negative, now I fear this might affect my personality in real life too. It's my problem though, I can't blame anyone for that. Being honest.
polyglot Posted March 24, 2013 Posted March 24, 2013 So, this has got nothing to do with the discussion entirely, but a message for you. OMG, the discussion was just tantalizing. Background : Let me tell you some interesting facts that happened in my life recently. I met a beautiful blonde online. We spoke for several hours, trust me, more than 24 hours at a stretch. A significant part of it was video. It was our very first time chatting after we exchanged emails based on our interests. I don't know, but I am definitely not the prince from heaven. I look like the average Indian guy, with all average features. So, this girl I don't know found me attractive. We talked and talked, it went on endlessly, lol, neither of us wants to stop. And we got some serious sleep after thirty six hours. Situation : She expressed her love to me and I admitted that very much. We were honest in sharing the **** we experienced in the past. I liked her honesty more than anything else. She's pretty, that's a different thing. So, we kept continuing like this almost everyday for about 6 days. Both used to talk for hours and during the day for a brief period on phone. Now that we both sort of proposed and accepted. I didn't quite accept, because I want to surprise her when I meet her. So, unable to hold for long, we both got to see each other, after about seven days of meeting online and we had amazing nights together. We talked a lot too. The tension that got built up during all the time unfolded into unfathomable pleasure for both of us. So, I proposed to her and said, I would marry her. She didn't quite say yes, though she was the one who actually showed interested when we spoke online. None of us are earning any good money. Not enough to raise kids. I returned to my place and started communicating to her. Stage 2 : I developed an emotional attachment to her and started loving her more deeply and was so eager to marry her. I cared a lot for her, as much as I could. After we met, it's around 15-20 days, when I lost the opportunity to talk to her directly, it used to be briefly online. She got very, very busy. The fortunate thing was, we met when she's on a vacation, chilling at home online. Stage 3 : Her communication became very brief to almost nothing. Nevertheless she used to be active on fb nevertheless, from adding friends and posts. I was the one who used to communicate to her and I never got a reply back unless forced. I felt suspicious of all of this. I pledged her that, I will marry her and be with her and detailed everything in the most honest and sincere way. She liked it a lot and reciprocated it with compliments, there ends the mail she properly took time to write to appreciate me and our budding relationship. So, now from that day onwards, I kept writing to her now and then and she never replied back, nothing, no replies even on fb, forget about skype. I got so frustrated, because I just expected her to answer briefly, nothing else, I was restless for her reply. after the 4th week from meet, I grew more and more restless and asked her explicitly, if she's avoiding me. Though she took time to answer, it was an outright NO. i was very happy for that. We actually planned to meet a second time and she's interested. I started writing mails telling her about the things I need to do before marriage, like informing my parents, introducing to my friends before I make an change of my relationship status anywhere. And also I described about the financial necessities that come along the way, kids etc etc. I was so much into the future about both of "us". I didn't get to speak much of these on phone. Stage 4 : Her emails became more and more platonic, no cues of fondness blah blah. So, I became restless all the time, lost my health and still didnt recover from it. I started suspecting if she might have fallen for somebody. I had to wait for hours at a stretch to see if I can see her online. Probably she turned me off. It's also partly true that she became incredibly busy with her day to day activities, that even after coming home from office, she had little or no time. It's only now I started tracing her activities carefully. I noticed, she's active on fb, adding friends and posts, but never a reply to any of my messages. She stopped liking stuff I posted too. I got so damn frustrated once, I outright fired, if she's not interested she should say NO, not to keep me unnecessarily busy like this. She got offended, whatever the ****. I finally pinged her in offline status one fine day and assuming she'll reply and got hold of her. She replied back, so, I asked her what's the matter. I was pretty much suffering from anguish for her lack of response and her stance. I asked her once, whats the matter about our relationship, she said it's all good. I breathed easy, but this day, I started inquiring and her replies went like, I am not very positive about this boyfriend friend, blah blah and lets be friends and you'll find a prettier, better girl blah blah. I was like wtf was that. She's talking like an Indian girl. So, I asked every question and cleared things up. Only then did I realize, she took a decision and refused all communication patently. I realized that she's either dating somebody or doesn't want me. Both are possible as I have been pretty closely observing her moves That was the final day between us. Stage 5 : Now, when I said I want to meet her the second time, she was actually interested in sex, yes. But later on, I kept my stance very clear that my interest is in talking with her about the future between us, how and where is our relationship, when to marry etc etc. Sex is a secondary matter for the second meet. I didn't hurry up, I said I will wait as long as she wants. I am pretty committed and was honest. She knew that very well. It devastated me emotionally like hell. I haven't yet recovered. Stage 6: Introspection : Looking back, and after discussions with friends I realized, it's not worth pursuing these women. They have little or no attachment to relationships. They date people all their lives and only when they reach a point, when they can't date, possibly they'll give up and learn to adjust with one man. Refer to the Divorce rates in the US. Again I am not generalizing, sorry and no offense intended, the stats speak out and the investments in dating websites speak of the culture, the age groups that are intended. I learnt a wonderful lesson that, these girls are meant to be dated i.e. spend time, make them feel comfortable emotionally, sex is truly a choice, it may or may not happen and they forget if. So they tend to move on for a new experience. In my case, it was not even that, it was funny. I never understood on the first hand, why the ****, she should say "I love you" to me. I am not a hot dude. Why did she create all the **** under the name of love. This is what I disliked, if all that she wanted to have a one night stand, why would I refuse. We could have done it with as much passion as we can without the name of love. I have a great respect for love and marriage. Using love for sex is seriously funny. I didn't like it. So dating is a term that loosely fixes things with or without sex. Also these girls say I love you so often, as remarked by one of my younger friend that left him bewildered and was surprised, what they really mean by that. Cultural difference - it's not a feeling from within. In my case, it was pretty much icky sticky when she said I love you. To make a girl say I love you in India is a challenge in itself. You just can't do it. The nature of attachment in US is very different, it's not so strong, it's polite and courteous. You should live in this culture to realize what it means to treat these women like women. So, men who grew up here know what tricks to play to woo them. We certainly are not equipped with that naturally. You can always learn. Because girls long for emotional well being, while men pretty much want to bang - universal fact. These are two strikingly contrasting needs for both sexes. Girls just need someone to take care of, they can't live like that. Thats where children come in. Sex is not their priority all the time. While in India girls generally don't have sex before marriage, of course no more now, things are changing. So the point here is dating is just a means to "talk", "enjoy the time", "eat together", "watch movies", "share interests". Sex is not always there. It may or may not be, depends on how you interact with the girl and her attitude. The best way for you wanting to date, don't be offended, get married and experience the things that unfold, it will show up the pleasure and pain of having to deal with a girl's emotion - She'll be with you, not date and forget. It's no different in wanting to mate with a foreigner. Whether you sleep with a white or dark skinned girl, it's the same. What matters the most is your emotional attachment to her. I go for the second one. So my experience with this girl was just an accident and ended like that. American girls date with any body they like and don't care so long as they feel good, they do it. Its simply the freedom in their lives that spoils their concept of emotional attachment to a man, even for who is really honest and sincere. They can't attach with one guy most of the time. Trust builds on time. They start longing for such a guy, the honest, sincere, who will respect them for who they are i.e. literally worried after 25 years of age and beyond 30, they are hopeless romantics - looking for something real and sincere. When you read the posts by girls in dating websites, all share the same generic thing expressed differently. I don't know how on earth can one actually know a person, just by reading about them and firing an email. Isn't there a ploy, how can they intend to find the special some-one online. In India parents take charge of finding our mate, but in US, it's their responsibility, so is the concept of dating. Identical matrimonial websites from India. Meeting in person is always the best way as far as I know, there are too many non-verbal cues that we exchange in this process. We can't generalize this very much though, that white women ignore indians, no way, they are very liberal. If you can't date a girl, your dating skills are poor, not your looks. I knew super awesome dudes, who just couldn't connect to / turn a girl on. And I knew dudes who are just about average and are so goddamn successful with many women at once, sexually I mean. Also, never go for a girl who wants you to spend or just wants sex, you get STDs. They are just shy of calling themselves whores. The girl I met was very good, she spent her part and I did mine. I like her still, but I didn't want to see her face again. I felt very bad for doing this in the name of love. A respectable girl will first see, how you are behaving, your nature, you should never rush to have her in bed. Every girl is different and every guy is different in their own crazy way. So, if you just want to date and have sex, trust me, it doesn't happen easy. You can date, but not having the benefit of sex all the time. Even the most beautiful chic looks like a bitch, witch whatever, if she has an ******* attitude. Extra Info Trust me guys, sex doesn't feel good, if a girl doesn't appeal to you emotionally, she may be Miss World or a gorgeous blonde or whatever the ****, I don't care, seriously how can you have a boner with such women. Even if you have sex for a few times in your life, if it's fulfilling, it will be a wonderful memory for you to cherish. Do it a million times and if you are unsatisfied, it's pointless. My opinion, and no offense.
sillyanswer Posted March 24, 2013 Posted March 24, 2013 I didn't find anything too informative. Fair enough.. many people seem unable to drive the search feature. But now that you've made this thread, if you scroll to the bottom of this page you'll see a section called "Similar Threads" which (at least when I'm looking at it right now) suggests some related posts. Much of the "indian dating" stuff ends up getting moved to the "In search of..." forum, since it's only tangentially about dating. There's at least one live thread on the first page of threads in that forum. Which search terms did you try?
taiko Posted March 24, 2013 Posted March 24, 2013 I might marry a White woman if she's not slutty, if she's not a gold digger, if she's not someone looking to date me just because she wants a piece of my wallet. And I have made it pretty clear earlier that my parents wouldn't mind as long as I am happy, read it properly before jumping to conclusions. I am not specifically targeting White women, they are just the majority over where I live so if I have to date someone purely based on the law of numbers, that means that I have to give White women a shot. But going by your posts and a lot of other posts in this forum, it seems like they would have no problem sleeping around with men of races that are higher up on the social ladder they made up while they would twist their panties in a bunch if it's an Indian man(no matter what his outlook is and stuff). Thanks for making that amply clear. No you won't. In the end you will submit to parental pressure and marry the distant cousin to further glorify the family. That is the stereotype you fight against. Being an Indian guy with "white fever" will not help you in any way. Just as every African American GI who comes home with an Asian bride had to overcome the fact that her culture considered his physical features of dark skin and a broad flat nose as ugly. Yet he still overcame the built in disadvantage instead of whining about the local girls buying skin whitening underarm undaunted and using descriptions of his physical features when being disappointed that her children would not be with one of the beautiful people.
Author gozunder Posted March 24, 2013 Author Posted March 24, 2013 No you won't. In the end you will submit to parental pressure and marry the distant cousin to further glorify the family. That is the stereotype you fight against. Being an Indian guy with "white fever" will not help you in any way. Just as every African American GI who comes home with an Asian bride had to overcome the fact that her culture considered his physical features of dark skin and a broad flat nose as ugly. Yet he still overcame the built in disadvantage instead of whining about the local girls buying skin whitening underarm undaunted and using descriptions of his physical features when being disappointed that her children would not be with one of the beautiful people. I got it, you can't beat the class system in dating and the stereotypes you are pitted against. So it's better to just let it go, I guess I could do that as I had always done in the past. Thanks but I can't change people's perspectives all alone, so I wouldn't even try to do it. Besides, one of the guys who posted earlier about his experience made it amply clear that mot of these women have no preference to be in a relationship with an Indian guy, going by the way he was dumped.
bu2002 Posted March 24, 2013 Posted March 24, 2013 I am an Indian male who was born and raised in the US. Was raised in a neighborhood that was 90% white. At this stage of my life, I still fight a double edged sword...I'm not Indian enough (from a cultural standpoint) for an Indian woman, but don't have the look (physically) for a Caucasian to see me in something other than a "friend" kind of way.
Author gozunder Posted March 24, 2013 Author Posted March 24, 2013 I am an Indian male who was born and raised in the US. Was raised in a neighborhood that was 90% white. At this stage of my life, I still fight a double edged sword...I'm not Indian enough (from a cultural standpoint) for an Indian woman, but don't have the look (physically) for a Caucasian to see me in something other than a "friend" kind of way. You are American culturally and in everyway. Americans claim that you could be White, Black, yellow, Brown any color literally as long as you are American at heart because this is a land of immigrants. Yet they would still discriminate you in your personal life and make you a social pariah because you aren't their skin color, however they make exceptions if someone's Black because they don't want to expose their racism openly.
ls32ssibm Posted March 24, 2013 Posted March 24, 2013 (edited) Have to appreciate the hypocrisy of all these threads. So many Indians, blacks, etc. complain that white women are racist because they don't want to date them, meanwhile they are essentially stating their goal is to bag a white woman over women of their own race. It's like if I went over to India and got frustrated that the ethnic makeup and culture of that country favored Indian men over myself. Anyway, my ex-girlfriend's best friend was engaged to, and eventually got married to an Indian guy. She's white. The engagement was plagued with problems; she wanted to keep her last name and the guy's family was basically demanding she change it lest they be insulted. From what I heard if they have children they will also be raised as Muslims. She is from a traditional Italian-Catholic family originally. Use your imagination as to how her family views that marriage. To pretend these barriers don't exist is PC garbage. Edited March 24, 2013 by ls32ssibm 2
Author gozunder Posted March 24, 2013 Author Posted March 24, 2013 Have to appreciate the hypocrisy of all these threads. So many Indians, blacks, etc. complain that white women are racist because they don't want to date them, meanwhile they are essentially stating their goal is to bag a white woman over women of their own race. It's like if I went over to India and got frustrated that the ethnic makeup and culture of that country favored Indian men over myself. Anyway, my ex-girlfriend's best friend was engaged to, and eventually got married to an Indian guy. She's white. The engagement was plagued with problems; she wanted to keep her last name and the guy's family was basically demanding she change it lest they be insulted. From what I heard if they have children they will also be raised as Muslims. She is from a traditional Italian-Catholic family originally. Use your imagination as to how her family views that marriage. To pretend these barriers don't exist is PC garbage. I didn't say anyone was particularly racist, I just said that even I adapted to the American way of life and were friendly, they wouldn't look at me as dating material because of the social dating structure here. However, I do agree with you that in a traditional Indian American wedding or relationship, the cultural barriers are bound to come up. I am not denying your statement that these barriers don't exist, they do. However, what if I were someone that's striking a chord between being able to maintain my heritage and yet still be attuned to the American way of life with it's values. That's exactly what I am trying to do and I am willing to do that if I find the woman that's not going to look at me as another stereotype. I am not Muslim, I am actually Agnostic and don't particularly practice any religion. My parents are traditional and orthodox however they understand that I am more inclined to being non religious than being religious and they are fine with that. So it's not like I am going to ask her to change her last name or something, I would in fact not ask an Indian woman either if I happen to marry one to change her last name for me. I like people having their own identity even after marriage. However, what's wrong with someone changing her last name to her husband's? I see it happening all the time in America too so it's expected as the norm in almost every part of the world.
Author gozunder Posted March 24, 2013 Author Posted March 24, 2013 Have to appreciate the hypocrisy of all these threads. So many Indians, blacks, etc. complain that white women are racist because they don't want to date them, meanwhile they are essentially stating their goal is to bag a white woman over women of their own race. It's like if I went over to India and got frustrated that the ethnic makeup and culture of that country favored Indian men over myself. Anyway, my ex-girlfriend's best friend was engaged to, and eventually got married to an Indian guy. She's white. The engagement was plagued with problems; she wanted to keep her last name and the guy's family was basically demanding she change it lest they be insulted. From what I heard if they have children they will also be raised as Muslims. She is from a traditional Italian-Catholic family originally. Use your imagination as to how her family views that marriage. To pretend these barriers don't exist is PC garbage. Besides, I have close to 6 friends who married American women. A couple of them have kids and they are all doing fine, their families are all okay too and no they don't fight among each other or anything like that. I have two female cousins of mine who came to US at a young age and married Caucasian men, none of the families disowned them or anything. In fact, one of the guys is heavily into Indian culture and stuff and he speaks very fluent Hindi too. So it's not like it doesn't exist. Most of the women that married my friends are very educated women, they love going to Indian traditional events, wearing saris and cooking/eating Indian food, so it's not like they were forced to do all that since it's not possible to do that in US. It's because they wanted to do all that.
ls32ssibm Posted March 24, 2013 Posted March 24, 2013 I didn't say anyone was particularly racist, I just said that even I adapted to the American way of life and were friendly, they wouldn't look at me as dating material because of the social dating structure here. However, I do agree with you that in a traditional Indian American wedding or relationship, the cultural barriers are bound to come up. I am not denying your statement that these barriers don't exist, they do. However, what if I were someone that's striking a chord between being able to maintain my heritage and yet still be attuned to the American way of life with it's values. That's exactly what I am trying to do and I am willing to do that if I find the woman that's not going to look at me as another stereotype. I am not Muslim, I am actually Agnostic and don't particularly practice any religion. My parents are traditional and orthodox however they understand that I am more inclined to being non religious than being religious and they are fine with that. So it's not like I am going to ask her to change her last name or something, I would in fact not ask an Indian woman either if I happen to marry one to change her last name for me. I like people having their own identity even after marriage. However, what's wrong with someone changing her last name to her husband's? I see it happening all the time in America too so it's expected as the norm in almost every part of the world. It should be up to the woman, and in the hand-to-God real scenario I provided you she was basically coerced/guilted into doing so because of the traditions in Indian culture. Anyway, Indian guys can get white chicks. I live in a small town and I've obviously seen it. Just remember there are hundreds of decent white guys on this forum that can't seem to find a decent (white) girl.
ls32ssibm Posted March 24, 2013 Posted March 24, 2013 Besides, I have close to 6 friends who married American women. A couple of them have kids and they are all doing fine, their families are all okay too and no they don't fight among each other or anything like that. I have two female cousins of mine who came to US at a young age and married Caucasian men, none of the families disowned them or anything. In fact, one of the guys is heavily into Indian culture and stuff and he speaks very fluent Hindi too. So it's not like it doesn't exist. Most of the women that married my friends are very educated women, they love going to Indian traditional events, wearing saris and cooking/eating Indian food, so it's not like they were forced to do all that since it's not possible to do that in US. It's because they wanted to do all that. So if you personally have 6 friends that married white American women, why the hell did you make this thread? I don't have six married friends period. 2
Author gozunder Posted March 24, 2013 Author Posted March 24, 2013 So if you personally have 6 friends that married white American women, why the hell did you make this thread? I don't have six married friends period. I don't know man, I just moved to a new place and find it lonely around here. I see people partying around me all the time but even when I talk to them nicely and all that, I find them very cold and stand offish. I started feeling that's because of my race. I guess I can't blame anyone else for that though, sorry for that.
ls32ssibm Posted March 24, 2013 Posted March 24, 2013 I don't know man, I just moved to a new place and find it lonely around here. I see people partying around me all the time but even when I talk to them nicely and all that, I find them very cold and stand offish. I started feeling that's because of my race. I guess I can't blame anyone else for that though, sorry for that. I lived in Seattle for six months (I'm from NY) last year and I was essentially alone the entire time. I don't believe your race has anything to do with it. It just sucks going to a new area.
Author gozunder Posted March 24, 2013 Author Posted March 24, 2013 I lived in Seattle for six months (I'm from NY) last year and I was essentially alone the entire time. I don't believe your race has anything to do with it. It just sucks going to a new area. I heard great things about Seattle though, that the people were very friendly and don't get spooked when approached by people like me, one of friends told that to me. On the other hand over where I am at, it's not so warm and friendly, quite the opposite actually.
Mme. Chaucer Posted March 24, 2013 Posted March 24, 2013 Seattle is so well known for being unfriendly that there is even a special term for it: The Seattle Freeze. I lived there for years and loved it.
polyglot Posted March 24, 2013 Posted March 24, 2013 (edited) Guys, I just don't get the rant of this whole thing. Why the **** is the fight still going on? To get an American chic ? Date is just a loose term dude. You identify what are your problems. Race and culture doesn't affect our basic instincts much - the attraction between a male and female. You always have a surplus here, go for something else. Try to improve in every opportunity in seducing a girl. It's no point simply brooding endlessly. Generalities mean nothing here. Every girl has her own distinct personality. There's always an example and counter example. I knew of Indian guys married to American chics and vice versa, some marriages are fine and some don't It's no point in arguing about what they do in general. All that a girl expects is security and wanting somebody who appreciates their interests and be honest. If you can ascribe to it, you are good to do. Reminder : You just can't make things work the very first time you meet. You gotta be in touch with them for a good amount of time. How can she know everything about you? I am sure, you always run into some chic or the another, getting an opportunity to talk I mean. Edited March 24, 2013 by polyglot
polyglot Posted March 24, 2013 Posted March 24, 2013 Cool story bro. Tell it again. Thanks Bengal Tiger. It's a wonderful memory and a lesson at the same time.
Bengal Tiger Posted March 24, 2013 Posted March 24, 2013 I don't know man, I just moved to a new place and find it lonely around here. I see people partying around me all the time but even when I talk to them nicely and all that, I find them very cold and stand offish. I started feeling that's because of my race. I guess I can't blame anyone else for that though, sorry for that. Check out meetup.com and similar types of event organizing groups in your city. There are ways to meet people who actually want to meet people. I move all the f***ing time like an epic career failure mysterious handsome nomad and I'll be damned if I'm going to sit in my hotel/apartment alone and feel sorry for myself. That gets old real quick. A lot of the people I meet are transplants like me so we have a common interest in exploring our new city and finding fun things to do. I have crippling social anxiety but I won't let that keep me from enjoying my life. Less bitching and more action will yield way better results. Nobody gives a **** about your race as much as you do. Trust me on this one bro.
Author gozunder Posted March 25, 2013 Author Posted March 25, 2013 Check out meetup.com and similar types of event organizing groups in your city. There are ways to meet people who actually want to meet people. I move all the f***ing time like an epic career failure mysterious handsome nomad and I'll be damned if I'm going to sit in my hotel/apartment alone and feel sorry for myself. That gets old real quick. A lot of the people I meet are transplants like me so we have a common interest in exploring our new city and finding fun things to do. I have crippling social anxiety but I won't let that keep me from enjoying my life. Less bitching and more action will yield way better results. Nobody gives a **** about your race as much as you do. Trust me on this one bro. I don't deny what you have said. As I mentioned earlier, I was a confident smart guy once upon a time, but I have shielded myself from the outside world for a few years now and let the negativity of everything I read online get to me to such a point that I dont' feel like going out in to the real world anymore. In any case, it's too late I guess. I used to be on meetup once upon a time, now I don't even go there that much, also most women on meetups are older women that are divorced or single moms etc etc. Hardly the demographic I am looking for.
jcrew11 Posted March 25, 2013 Posted March 25, 2013 You are American culturally and in everyway. Americans claim that you could be White, Black, yellow, Brown any color literally as long as you are American at heart because this is a land of immigrants. Yet they would still discriminate you in your personal life and make you a social pariah because you aren't their skin color, however they make exceptions if someone's Black because they don't want to expose their racism openly. Are you willing to convert to Christianity or Catholicism? Because it matters to a lot of white families in the midwest that you can be "trusted and share the same religion, values and lifestyle." Just being born in America does not necessarily make you a WASP.
Author gozunder Posted March 25, 2013 Author Posted March 25, 2013 Are you willing to convert to Christianity or Catholicism? Because it matters to a lot of white families in the midwest that you can be "trusted and share the same religion, values and lifestyle." Just being born in America does not necessarily make you a WASP. Of course, I understand and it's fair enough. however, I value my own heritage and respect my ancestors too much to never convert into anything else that's foreign to me. I will be what I am and I think it's okay, I will be happier at the end of the day that way.
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