destroyed4sho Posted March 23, 2013 Posted March 23, 2013 Which would, potentially, make him an accessory to a felony in a sex crime?? Technically, he didnt know about until it was already done. Plus he is 17(considered an adult in some states i think...not sure)
TheBladeRunner Posted March 23, 2013 Posted March 23, 2013 If he is underage, then you should report it. I disagree with the poster who said to let her know first. You don't owe her a thing. Let her deal with being blindsided. She had no problem blindsiding you. She deserves no respect Agreed MissChris: "Don't let em' (her) see it coming". OP, what your GF did is a HUGE violation of ethics regarding her occupation and it needs to be reported. 2
Author blindhope Posted March 23, 2013 Author Posted March 23, 2013 I think an annoymus tip to the HR department may be the way to go. She said a couple gfs at work have and idea, becasuse lines where already blurred between the two and they saw how she looks at him
TigerCub Posted March 23, 2013 Posted March 23, 2013 OP, all you can do is follow your conscience and your heart. You already established that you want to move on - that's good! that's a good first step. If you have doubts about outing her - fine, don't do anything you feel you're not 100% convinced by. All that matters is that you look out for you and move towards healing. Good luck 2
Njeanne Posted March 23, 2013 Posted March 23, 2013 I hope by the time her infatuation ends and realizes what she has done and tries to crawl back, you'll be in a state of mind you'll be (f*ck off b*tch) And she is doing something illegal, hence it's a secret. If you could proof it "legally" maybe think of going to police, but revenge isn't a good thing most of times, but meh, I would do it and I'm not even a hateful/spiteful person. >.> I wouldn't accept this pain after such a length of time together. 1
Author blindhope Posted March 23, 2013 Author Posted March 23, 2013 I don't want to do it out of anger or spite, but rather cause its the right thing to do. She's been at the job for 4 months when I know of her falling for him. So there is some mental unstability there for her. She shouldn't be with kids in a bad spot or needing guidance when she can't do what's right. She should be in therapy not giving it. 2
Author blindhope Posted March 23, 2013 Author Posted March 23, 2013 OK now she wants to take my dog away from me.... I try and be the better guy. I try and forgive and forgert, move on. and she keeps trying to provoke me. Try and take away what little I have left. I really think she's trying to test my limits
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