Allthosewhowander Posted March 23, 2013 Posted March 23, 2013 I moved across the country to be with with my ex, and we had just found out we where having our first child, mind you all this was 1 long year ago, i moved to the west coast away from anyone I knew, had suffered with sever depression, and she sent me home, for honestly no obvious reason back in February of last year, and after i was home for almost to a month and had only been out there with here for a little over a week, she dumped me when i left and called me back in march, we had disagreements and such we were harsh with eqch other but i swear she was my best friend period! Anyways called me back and we got back together after what she said of getting my anxiety under control, so a moth goes by pregnancy sickness ect, and i had asked her if she had been talking to someone else and boom, dumped me fair and square months later i get a call from her mom private number cussing me out, i tell her this she bluntly calls me a liar and hangs up i got one sonogram pic no words period, and in the fall of last year one pic of my child no words, tried to contact her as i never wanted a child in a broken home and never recieved a reply her family constantly harassed me all of last summer, and found out early this year im. Am to appear in court over this order, i loved and still love this girl more than life itself, im hurt distraught and overwhelmed with the way i was treated, I want to support my child but i know nothing of her at all she will be 7 mnths in may and I just cant understand why things didnt work out i cant go back t my old work place they all defend her she is the victim in their eyes im not a dead beat i want to PAY! I still love my ex and id take a bullet for her if need be! Why and how could somethig like this happen?
TaraMaiden Posted March 23, 2013 Posted March 23, 2013 We have no idea, but something must have happened to rock the boat and have them tip you out. I can't believe all this has happened for absolutely no reason whatsoever. If your name isn't on the Birth certificate, and you're not married, and they don't want you involved in any way, then you have no choice as far as I can see. You could try going to court to obtain a visitation order but not being legally married, or recognised as the father, doesn't stack well in your favour.
Author Allthosewhowander Posted March 23, 2013 Author Posted March 23, 2013 Seriously im in court right now if the paternal test shows im the father my name will be on the bc, and to explain a bit more, i had a lot of depression issues at that time i had ptsd and have still. Its just i closed up it was hard being away from my family with no one i could have help to cope with my anxiety, it was a rough rocky ordeal but i did nothing to deserve all this she treated me like crap for the whole period i was there hid my medicine from me because she said i dnt need it at all, what was i supposed to do? I had withdrawals you cant just go off benzos abruptly and i took them the right way for the right reasons
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