Lambchoper Posted March 22, 2013 Posted March 22, 2013 I'm been told I'm a really good kisser my whole life. But after last nights date I'm feeling insecure about myself in general. We had a pretty good date going on and at the end he goes in for a kiss before I go to my car... his kiss started off shabby, so I pulled back and went in a second time but a really good kiss. He stopped 20 seconds into it and his eyes widen and he just looks at me in shock (I think?). It wasn't a fast or weird too much tongue kiss.. it was just a proper make out sess for about 20 seconds. Then he rushes me to my car and that was it. He told me to message me when I got home to see if I got home ok, so I did. He said back. ":) great! I had a really nice time hanging out with you" . I said I had a lot of fun also But no talks about a second date. I'm assuming I wont hear from him again and I'm scared he didn't like my kiss. or maybe he was really turned on by it? His expression is haunting me now. haha.
january2011 Posted March 23, 2013 Posted March 23, 2013 Sometimes when two people kiss, it just doesn't work out, no matter what previous kissing partners have said. Or it could have worked out too well but that's not a good thing for one of the partners. I'd file this away as something to ask him about if you go on a second date. Otherwise, I wouldn't worry about it - perhaps the experience is just going to end up as an anomaly in your entire kissing career and therefore not worth investing any more thought or emotional energy into. 1
kaylan Posted March 23, 2013 Posted March 23, 2013 Sometimes kissing chemistry takes a slight bit of practice. Ive had different kissing styles than some girls, and with a few we learned how to combine our styles into something really enjoyable. And with a couple others the kissing always left something to be desired. It all depends really. Just keep dating him, try to follow each others lead a bit, and communicate some if things dont mesh. 1
Apolodor Posted March 23, 2013 Posted March 23, 2013 Are you going to lose sleep because he couldn't appreciate your kiss?? You must be joking..... 1
todreaminblue Posted March 23, 2013 Posted March 23, 2013 I'm been told I'm a really good kisser my whole life. But after last nights date I'm feeling insecure about myself in general. We had a pretty good date going on and at the end he goes in for a kiss before I go to my car... his kiss started off shabby, so I pulled back and went in a second time but a really good kiss. He stopped 20 seconds into it and his eyes widen and he just looks at me in shock (I think?). It wasn't a fast or weird too much tongue kiss.. it was just a proper make out sess for about 20 seconds. Then he rushes me to my car and that was it. He told me to message me when I got home to see if I got home ok, so I did. He said back. ":) great! I had a really nice time hanging out with you" . I said I had a lot of fun also But no talks about a second date. I'm assuming I wont hear from him again and I'm scared he didn't like my kiss. or maybe he was really turned on by it? His expression is haunting me now. haha. I wouldnt worry about it.....its crap to get turned off with a kiss, kissing is something you go ok lets do it again try this.......as far as tongue goes...less is more.......unless you are horizontally kissing..maybe he got turned on and had to run...before you noticed.....that does happen could happen and isnt impossible...have had it happen to me.....on about the fifth date.....i asked him why eh took off so quick and ended the date and he told me because he got too excited .....i said cool wont do it again then and you can stay longer next time...which he did.deb
Ninjainpajamas Posted March 23, 2013 Posted March 23, 2013 In that moment....he realized he was....gay.
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