What is wrong with him ?

[Ellekay]

Hey evreyone !

 

So when a guy :

Teases you and is mean to you all the time (in a fun way though), calls you nicknames, stares at you, smiles at you, does the "eyebrow flash" lol, and has his friends looking at me all the time, BUT : he never wants to hang out with you, and you've never talked in "real" life, and only texted for like a year, even though he's in the same school as you, and see's you everyday.

 

WHAT DOES IT FREAKING MEAN ? Likes me ? Likes me not ? Thanks

 

 

 

More details :

 

There's this guy I've been liking for like a year, we used to text a lot, but we never saw each other in "real" life, even though he's at my school, I see him everyday, and lives in my town (weird I know, don't ask me why), it's probably because I'm like superduper shy.

But even when I asked him to hang out, he never wanted to, but he always initiated the texts, and was always very flirty.

 

So when last summer was over I was like f*** that, if he doesn't want to see me, fine, it means he's not into me.

So I dated another guy, and when he saw me at school with my new boyfriend, he looked like a sad little puppy, and his friends all gave me the "you betrayed my friend" look, but I THOUGHT HE WASN'T INTO ME ! Guess he was or something...

 

So the relationship with my boyfriend ended, and I tried to text him again, but he didn't reply to my texts, and he changed his number without giving it to me, so I was like okay well he really doesn't care now. (This was in Jan 2013)

 

AND THEN ! Lately he's been really weird, like all of his friends keep checking me out every time I see them, giving me the "I know something you don't know ;)" look.

Then, last time at school, HE SMILED AT ME ! And raised his eyebrows (I know that means something in the male body language or whatever).

Keep in mind that this is the first time he ever makes actual "contact" with me in "public", all the other times he just ignores me completely, or he stares at me when I'm not looking, I always catch him though lol.

 

And we both have twitter, and he ALWAYS teases me or is being mean to me (in a fun way though), like last time he posted :

"I'm so bored"

And I replied : "Then you should come see me then hihihi"

And he answered : "Maybe I'd be better off staying bored ahah"

 

Little things like this, ughhhh so annoying !

 

So I don't know what is up with him, these "games" have been going on for a year now, I don't know what to think or do, because I really like this guy, and my guts tell him he likes me too, but why doesn't he ever want to see me, or why hasn't he texted me since, and never comes and see me at school ? WHY WHY WHY ?

 

Basically, does he like me ? Because I really want to go up to him at school next week, but I need to have an exterior point of view, and be honest please !

 

Thanks

 

BTW : We're both 18

[Mr_Flay]

BTW : We're both 18

 

Well, that explains a lot. Think of it this way: if he didn't care about you, if he though you were boring, if he wasn't attracted, would he take the time to tease you?

 

I don't know about you, but I usually don't invest too much energy into people I don't like. I save it for people I do like.

[Ellekay]

Yeah it's true, but he doesn't talk to me anymore, he used to text me, now he doesn't, and he didn't even give me his new number IDK he's weird...

[Mr_Flay]

Seems like he's taking flirting too far without making a move. You did the right thing by texting him to come see you, and he probably chickened out. Or though he'd create more attraction by being "unavailable". Personally, I don't care for games. If you like the drama and suspense, play along. Otherwise, threaten him that you'll find yourself another boyfriend if he doesn't decide soon.

[FitChick]

he doesn't talk to me anymore, he used to text me, now he doesn't, and he didn't even give me his new number IDK he's weird...

 

Do you really have to ask what this means? Move on.