aisuru Posted May 19, 2013 Posted May 19, 2013 Maybe you casually date, not exclusive, just as if it's a new girl. That way all your eggs aren't in one basket. Have you guys hung out at all or just spoken on the phone?
Author DrStrangelove Posted May 19, 2013 Author Posted May 19, 2013 we hung out. went to a movie. I agree. Just pretty much take it slow. I've been searching through the forum for a second chance success story. Where a couple lasted +20 years after a breakup. Just for insight.
Kobe2345 Posted May 19, 2013 Posted May 19, 2013 we hung out. went to a movie. I agree. Just pretty much take it slow. I've been searching through the forum for a second chance success story. Where a couple lasted +20 years after a breakup. Just for insight. where u find that?! just curious to read lol
cinta_satu Posted May 19, 2013 Posted May 19, 2013 seems like you are in a win-win situation. you've successfully picked yourself back up and turned into a better you. worst case scenario even if things don't work out the 2nd time around you won't be crushed. congrats. and good luck!
Author DrStrangelove Posted May 19, 2013 Author Posted May 19, 2013 where u find that?! just curious to read lol I haven't found a story, granted I didn't look that hard. But, yea..
cinta_satu Posted May 19, 2013 Posted May 19, 2013 if you're looking for reconciliation stories there are bunch here - Getting back together really does happen!
Kobe2345 Posted May 19, 2013 Posted May 19, 2013 if you're looking for reconciliation stories there are bunch here - Getting back together really does happen! oh yeah i went through that haha, those are pretty awesome to read, jsut to make me feel better tho
cinta_satu Posted May 19, 2013 Posted May 19, 2013 oh yeah i went through that haha, those are pretty awesome to read, jsut to make me feel better tho haha for real. hopefully someday i can post my own story on there.
Kobe2345 Posted May 19, 2013 Posted May 19, 2013 haha for real. hopefully someday i can post my own story on there. Haha me too, Great minds think alike? Haha jk
cinta_satu Posted May 19, 2013 Posted May 19, 2013 Haha me too, Great minds think alike? Haha jk or sad/desperate minds think alike? lol. actually let's say 'positive minds' think alike.
siankat Posted May 19, 2013 Posted May 19, 2013 Yeah it's like, do u want the reality of her back? It's so easy to think you do when you've been apart for a time and are in longing, but so hard to make that decision if deep down you KNOW it's not good enough for you (the relationship). Good luck dude!
Author DrStrangelove Posted May 19, 2013 Author Posted May 19, 2013 I spoke with her last night... now she is saying she is unsure. I did tell her I didn't think we would work out ever, and now I am going back on my word. She said I've always done that - gone back & forth. She has reservations as she believes I am just settling with her, and she deserves to be someone's first. Also, she feels I never loved her during the entire 3 years. I have come to realize, I am just getting lonely. I don't really miss her. Just the desire to have SOMEONE. We decided it's best we don't try to reconcile at this point. We both have a lot of baggage at this point. 1
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