Hiromi Duran Posted March 22, 2013 Posted March 22, 2013 Sooo, I probably sound like an immature little girl...but I feel like there's something wrong with me...because I'm 18 about to turn 19, I haven't had a boyfriend or my first kiss, and it's aggravating me because every time I talk to a guy, he seems interested and he leads me on...but then if I show just a little interest, they stop talking to me...｡･ﾟﾟ･(>д<)･ﾟﾟ･｡ It's not like I'm a bad person, and I don't cling either, because I know men hate that, I don't think I'm ugly...but then I do feel like that...especially because of what I am...（ ＴДＴ）this is going off topic... it's because it's hard for me to fit in because I'm Mexican-Japanese American, for example, I go to mexico to visit some family and they label me for being "chinki" as in I'm part Asian. I go to Japan, and obviously, the people look at me weirdly because I speak Japanese but I look foreign...and then I'm here in America and because of my tan skin, people take me as a "beaner"(」゜ロ゜)」 ...ugh... can't guys just look at me as a normal girl? I feel like giving up (シ_ _)シ ...because for sure, my dream is to date a Japanese guy, but of course I'm open to other ethnicity's ^^ well, this tots sounds dumb, but it's my feelings... anyone have opinions? 〜(￣△￣〜)
travissss Posted March 22, 2013 Posted March 22, 2013 You're only 18, you have a whole life ahead of you. You're normal. It could be worse. I'm 30 now, but that age was hell for me. 5 years from now you'll probably be a completely different person with a new circle of friends. 1
Uncle Indy Posted March 23, 2013 Posted March 23, 2013 I think there's nothing wrong with the way you have been living. I'm a lot different from other people, but I wouldn't even try to date a girl who was hooking up and doing whatever with different guys at parties every weekend. Don't worry so much about not having a first kiss, boyfriend, etc. Many boys 18-21 are very pathetic. There are a good few who are good people, but not many. 1
iKING Posted March 23, 2013 Posted March 23, 2013 There's something wrong with all of us. Fact of life. Perhaps try doing some pursuing? Not all guys actively pursue all girls.
Author Hiromi Duran Posted March 23, 2013 Author Posted March 23, 2013 You're only 18, you have a whole life ahead of you. You're normal. It could be worse. I'm 30 now, but that age was hell for me. 5 years from now you'll probably be a completely different person with a new circle of friends. Thank you sooo much, I really appreciate it~ ^^ You are truly right, hee hee, I don't know what I was thinking while writing my rant...because that's pretty much what it was... Thank you again~ (ﾉ≧∀≦)ﾉ
joey.101 Posted March 23, 2013 Posted March 23, 2013 You'll meet people just by doing whatever it is you do - study, work, clubs, hobbies.. IMO if you worry about it heaps, you might jump into something without a clear mind and end up getting hurt. Maintain a good quality circle of friends and a good guy will come by.
Author Hiromi Duran Posted March 23, 2013 Author Posted March 23, 2013 I think there's nothing wrong with the way you have been living. I'm a lot different from other people, but I wouldn't even try to date a girl who was hooking up and doing whatever with different guys at parties every weekend. Don't worry so much about not having a first kiss, boyfriend, etc. Many boys 18-21 are very pathetic. There are a good few who are good people, but not many. Oh my gosh thank you sooo much ^^ seriously, ヾ（*⌒ヮ⌒*）ゞ I needed someone to remind me about the reality out there, I will grow up and maybe in the future, pursue a guy...because my mom said the same thing about guys "18-21 year old guys are pathetic" ヾ(*д*)ﾉ゛ Thank you again ヾ(＠^∇^＠)ノ
Author Hiromi Duran Posted March 23, 2013 Author Posted March 23, 2013 There's something wrong with all of us. Fact of life. Perhaps try doing some pursuing? Not all guys actively pursue all girls. Hmmmm, that sounds like a good idea, but I guess I'll have to wait... tots sorry about the rant... thank you ⊂(^(工)^)⊃
Author Hiromi Duran Posted March 23, 2013 Author Posted March 23, 2013 You'll meet people just by doing whatever it is you do - study, work, clubs, hobbies.. IMO if you worry about it heaps, you might jump into something without a clear mind and end up getting hurt. Maintain a good quality circle of friends and a good guy will come by. Arigatou for the advice~ I feel much better now (。⌒∇⌒)。 hee hee, you're right, I should leave the stress somewhere else, before I even try to jump into something else... Thank you ヽ(´ー`)ﾉ
joey.101 Posted March 23, 2013 Posted March 23, 2013 It's tough not to think about it though i can understand. So.. is there always a total change in the guy everytime you show some interest? If it's a total consistent pattern, what do you think it is that makes them run? 1
Giraffe1 Posted March 23, 2013 Posted March 23, 2013 I know it feels like the day will never come, but it will. I was 19 before I had my first boyfriend and my first kiss. I empathize with you but hang in there. When it comes to your ethnicity I think it is so unique and beautiful. I'm sure there is quite a few men out there who would think the same thing. Embrace the fact that you have an exotic mixture. There really is no way to expedite having your first boyfriend. Take life as it comes and the opportunities and new people that come along with it. There is no point in being in a relationship if the guy isn't right for you, remember that. Too many of my friends are with guys just so they won't be alone. Use this time to make yourself the best woman you can be, the woman your dream man would want. And before you know it your dream man will make an appearance. 1
Author Hiromi Duran Posted March 24, 2013 Author Posted March 24, 2013 I know it feels like the day will never come, but it will. I was 19 before I had my first boyfriend and my first kiss. I empathize with you but hang in there. When it comes to your ethnicity I think it is so unique and beautiful. I'm sure there is quite a few men out there who would think the same thing. Embrace the fact that you have an exotic mixture. There really is no way to expedite having your first boyfriend. Take life as it comes and the opportunities and new people that come along with it. There is no point in being in a relationship if the guy isn't right for you, remember that. Too many of my friends are with guys just so they won't be alone. Use this time to make yourself the best woman you can be, the woman your dream man would want. And before you know it your dream man will make an appearance. You are sooo awesome, thank you sooo much (ღ˘⌣˘ღ) I feel fuzzy inside~ I guess it is better to wait, because waiting is the best thing I can do, and you're right...I should make myself better, because I'm good right now, but I know I can improve ^^ You are a wonderful woman~ ^o^
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