Author Star Gazer Posted April 10, 2013 Author Posted April 10, 2013 It won't last don't worry, he isn't looking for anything serious. I don't really know why you are friends with him on FB. I think that's relevant to the thread. Don't you believe it's 'too nice' (for want of a better expression) of you to keep this link? I think the boundaries of what you tolerate should be enforced more clearly. Meh, I'm "friends" on FB with pretty much anyone I've met IRL who isn't a creepy creeper or an arsehole. We have several mutual friends. Like I said before, he's not a bad guy. What "boundary" is there to enforce? :shrug: He's not at all active on FB. He posts like once every 2 months, so I'd kinda forgotten he was even on there until that popped up in my newsfeed.
Author Star Gazer Posted April 10, 2013 Author Posted April 10, 2013 Hey, at least he was honest and it wasn't YOU. Forces beyond your control in this one. True. And it explains why he freaked out and clammed up. "Sh*t! She's putting all her eggs in one basket but I'm literally seconds away from committing to someone else! Ack! Panic, panic!" He felt bad, and kept saying, "This sucks, I'm sorry..." and saying how when it rains it pours... Yup. I get it now. 2
FitChick Posted April 10, 2013 Posted April 10, 2013 A man tells a woman he has no problem with her being proactive, he prefers it, she says she prefers that too, but your advice is for her to lie and do just the opposite of what they both want. You seem to be obsessed with sexual stereotypes! Shame on you. Don't worry, I'm sure you will be able to find an aggressive woman who likes a passive male. There are quite a few out there. Don't give up!
tuxedo cat Posted April 10, 2013 Posted April 10, 2013 (edited) JSo just as a totally random update... He and I are friends on FB. He just updated his relationship status, to show that as of March 23rd (the day after I posted this thread) he was in a relationship with the hot bartender. Ha. This would come as a relief to me. At least you know you did nothing wrong! Just bad luck. Edited April 10, 2013 by tuxedo cat
tbf Posted April 10, 2013 Posted April 10, 2013 So just as a totally random update... He and I are friends on FB. He just updated his relationship status, to show that as of March 23rd (the day after I posted this thread) he was in a relationship with the hot bartender. Ha.Wow, sounds like "spark" and "flirting" were a little more than mild flirting if he dove into a relationship the day after. So much for taking his time and observing patterns in partners. Sucks.
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